About Lili Bee

Lili Bee is the founder of an online Resource Center for Partners of porn/Sex Addicts at PoSARC.com An ordained Interfaith/ Interspiritual Minister, she offers spiritual counseling as well as writing and officiating at weddings and other rites of passages. She is a member of Spiritual Directors International. Contact her via email at lili@posarc.com, follow her on Twitter, or visit her blog.

Alicia Keys Rallied Fans: Join The Protest Against Village Voice Sex Trafficking Ads

November 17, 2011 By Lili Bee 41 Comments

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Lili Bee went to a protest against sex trafficking and this is what she saw.

Filed Under: Featured Content, Good Feed Blog, Newsroom Tagged With: Alicia Keys, protest, sex trafficking, Village Voice

Porn on Planes?

November 12, 2011 By Lili Bee 75 Comments

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Lili Bee would like us to think through the implications of allowing pornography on plane flights.

Filed Under: Good Feed Blog, Newsroom, Sex & Relationships Tagged With: Flight attendants, JetBlue, Michael O'Leary, pornography, Quantas, Ryanair, Sex Offender

A Phoenix Rising

October 13, 2011 By Lili Bee 8 Comments

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Lili Bee talks with photographer Brad Oliphant about addiction, homosexuality, and coming to terms with one’s spirituality.

Filed Under: Editors' Picks, Featured Content, Gender & Sexuality, On Spirituality Tagged With: addiction, Brad Oliphant, homosexuality, phoenix rising, photography, spirituality

Lessons From Prison

October 6, 2011 By Lili Bee 2 Comments

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“I bear witness to people who are forgotten by most and judged as unworthy and unforgivable, especially by themselves.” A volunteer talks about helping others find remorse.

Filed Under: Conflict, Prison Tagged With: Osborne Association Longermers Responsibility Project, prison, remorse, restorative justice, violent offenders

25 Years Up From Bottom

October 6, 2011 By Lili Bee 5 Comments

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Lili Bee interviews a violent offender just released from Sing Sing, and talks about remorse, learning to see consequences, restorative justice, and goodness.

Filed Under: Best of Ethics & Values, Ethics & Values, Featured Content, Prison Tagged With: lifer, maximum security, parole, prison, remorse, restorative justice, Sing Sing, violent offender

I Ain’t Talking

September 26, 2011 By Lili Bee 3 Comments

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When you can’t talk, write poetry.

Filed Under: Featured Content, Gender & Sexuality, On Rape and Sexual Violence Tagged With: I ain't talking, Lili Bee, poetry, rape, sexual abuse, sexual violence

Erotica, Patriarchy, and Pornography

September 21, 2011 By Lili Bee 78 Comments

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Lili Bee continues her interview with Dr. Robert Jensen about pornography and what it says about our society.

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Filed Under: Editors' Picks, Featured Content, Sex & Relationships Tagged With: erotica, feminism, gender roles, Lili Bee, masculinity, oppression, patriarchy, pornography, Sex and Relationships

Is Sex Positive Ever Negative?

September 20, 2011 By Lili Bee 108 Comments

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Lili Bee interviews Dr. Robert Jensen about what’s at stake when talking about our sexual differences.

Filed Under: Featured Content, Sex & Relationships Tagged With: Anita Bryant, beauty, Culture, Dr. Robert Jensen, fundamentalism, porn, sex, sex negative, sex positive, sex-liberation, sexuality

Of Heroic Men and Good Deeds: A 9/11 Memoir

September 10, 2011 By Lili Bee 17 Comments

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When Lili opened her home to the rescue workers digging through the rubble, she learned about fearlessness and strength and courage.

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Filed Under: 9/11, Conflict, Featured Content Tagged With: 9/11, ground zero, heroes, nyc, rescue workers, September 11, Twin Towers

MILFs and Happy Endings

July 19, 2011 By Lili Bee 94 Comments

photo by meyerweb

Is raunch culture invading our everyday language?

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Filed Under: Editors' Picks, Featured Content, Gender & Sexuality Tagged With: family, Friendly's, Lili Bee, magazines, MILF, porn, porn industry, pornography, sex addiction, Sex and Relationships

When Playboy Bunnies Ruled

June 20, 2011 By Lili Bee 63 Comments

Bunny Lili at NYC Playboy Club 1978

At 17, most girls are filling out college applications. I was nervously auditioning to become a Bunny at the New York Playboy Club.

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Filed Under: Best of Good Men Project Magazine, Editors' Picks, Evergreen, Featured Content, Sex & Relationships Tagged With: 1970s, corset, Hugh Hefner, nightclubs, Playboy, Playboy bunny, porn industry, pornography, role model, sex, Sex and Relationships, teenager, The Playboy Club, women

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Second Degree Murder For Lacrosse Player?

Jamie Reidy is shocked by the jury’s decision to convict lacrosse player George Huguely V only of second degree murder in the slaying of his former girlfriend, Yeardley Love.

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Get Walmart Out Of Your Kitchen: A Reason To Learn To Cook

Food blogger Justin Cascio wants men to eat better, and the first step is in learning to cook.

Say Good-bye to “That’s So Gay”: On the Decline of Homophobia

Mark McCormack: “We do no-one any favors if we only fight prejudice that is, for some, yesterday’s battle.”

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Why Settle for Less?

Jamie Reidy encourages single twentysomethings to hold out for Ms. Right, not settle for Ms. Not Too Bad

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10 Reasons Men Love Saint-orum

Men are leading Rick Santorum’s mad charge for the White House. Tom Matlack wants to know why.

Could A Club Drug Offer ‘Almost Immediate’ Relief From Depression?

NPR reports on the use of Ketamine to treat acute depression.

Comment of the Day

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“When I was in a men’s group in 1972, I distinctly remember feeling edgy when we would hug.”

“My son and daughter keep reminding me that things are changing.” The times they are a changin’ (comment and Marco Magnani video cover of Bob Dylan song.)

“Want to scare the crap out of the politicians in Washington? Figure out what we all agree on”

“This issue of how to reduce the reactivity on our political discourse is central to my thinking of late.”

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“With non-Western cultures, you really have to humble yourself and drop a western centric view to at least understand them.”

This comment was from Spidaman3 on the post Headscarves and Men Holding Hands: Coming Out as a Cultural Relativist

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