About Vironika Tugaleva

Vironika Tugaleva is a people lover, inspirational speaker, reformed cynic, coach, and bestselling author of the award-winning book The Love Mindset. Her work helps people develop self-awareness, cultivate peace of mind, and discover the importance of healing, loving, and understanding themselves. You're invited to read more about Vironika and get a sneak preview of The Love Mindset .

Here’s Why I Don’t Want to Cheat

Vironika Tugaleva says that there are two simple reasons that she feels no desire to cheat on her partner.

How to Truly Love Your Man on Valentine’s Day: Let Him Be Himself

Vironika Tugaleva shares the secret to loving your partner beyond ideas of what happily in-love should look like.

The Victim Bully Dynamic: How to End it for Good

Vironika Tugaleva shares a simple but not easy solution to the cycle of abuse.

Confessions From a Former Psycho Bitch From Hell

A quest for perfection turned Vironika Tugaleva into an urban legend.

Lies Women Tell One Another About Men and Love

Vironika Tugaleva thought she was showing her man how much she loved him by being the perfect Cosmo Girl. Instead, she almost lost him.

Shame Is Why We Fight

When a man can’t soothe his woman’s anxieties, he has failed to protect her. And in our culture of masculinity, failed men are expendable.

My Gain, Your Loss: Hair Removal, Feminism, and Interdependence

An ideology that lacks compassion for half of humanity will not secure freedom for anyone.

You Can’t Be Too Supportive

Advice for handling children’s fears can be applied to us all.

Shame and Violence: The Connecticut School Shooting and Hate

Tragedy comes from repressed shame, not from being too permissive with people.

The Uniform of Gender

Gender is like a uniform you can’t take off.