Andrew D. S. James is glad we are having civil discourse on such issues as race. But he’d also like us to take some action.
Lili Bee interviews a violent offender just released from Sing Sing, and talks about remorse, learning to see consequences, restorative justice, and goodness.
Lying About the Truth, Telling the Truth About Lies
August 22, 2011 By 2 Comments
Poetry in Motion: A Story of Hardship and Hope in Crow Country, Montana
August 10, 2011 By 7 Comments
David Dean tells the tale of an immense struggle hidden and neglected throughout time and of a game that turned out to be so much more.
‘Why I Don’t Want to Talk About Race’
August 8, 2011 By 136 Comments
Tom Matlack asked his friend Steve Locke to write for us about race. He declined. Here’s why.
Damned if We Do, Damned if We Don’t
August 3, 2011 By 131 Comments
No wonder this is a confusing time for men. Chivalry is dead, and men are to blame.
May I Walk You to Your Car? Chivalry and its Contradictions
August 2, 2011 By 97 Comments
Even though biology might not be destiny, Hugo Schwyzer writes, there’s nothing wrong with a man being chivalrous.
Good Porn and Evil Do-Gooders? Good and Its Many Shades of Gray
July 30, 2011 By 7 Comments
Roger Durham embraces the ambiguity, tension, diversity of thought and juxtaposition of words like “good” and “porn” in the discussions here.
Why A-holes Trump Good Men
June 29, 2011 By 9 Comments
It’s not so much a case of “nice guys finish last.” They simply get stuck in the middle—and nobody cares about the middle.
Wealthy, Handsome, Strong, Packing Endless Hard-ons: The Impossible Ideals Men Are Expected to Meet
June 23, 2011 By 27 Comments
Sexy Headlines and Skimpy Science: The Debate on Women and Attractive Husbands
June 22, 2011 By 16 Comments
Andrea Doucet reviews the research on whether women should “go ugly” and draws some conclusions.
Can We Talk About Something Important, Please?
June 11, 2011 By Leave a Comment
As a culture we love porn. We love guys who cheat. And we really have a lot of trouble getting honest about what it means to be a man. Readers respond to Weiner and breast augmentation.
An Atheist and a Fine Bottle of Wine
June 5, 2011 By 29 Comments
Roger Durham finds that in discussions about spirituality, asking questions is more important than finding answers.
Dude, Don’t ‘Neg’
May 31, 2011 By 252 Comments
“What’s less authentic than entering into a ‘spontaneous’ social interaction with a script?” Hugo Schwyzer argues that “negging” isn’t cool.
Why Men Should Join SlutWalk
May 24, 2011 By 110 Comments
Los Angeles SlutWalk steering committee member and GMPM columnist Hugo Schwyzer argues that SlutWalk is for men, too.
How to Stare at Women
April 26, 2011 By 175 Comments
Hugo Schwyzer offers some practical advice for checking out women without making them head for the hills.
Vocalyze
I am Man, Hear Me Roar!
Roger Durham discusses the loss of intellectual dialog to loud, vitriolic and sometimes personal attacks on character.
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