Roger Durham embraces the ambiguity, tension, diversity of thought and juxtaposition of words like “good” and “porn” in the discussions here.
Why A-holes Trump Good Men
June 29, 2011 By 9 Comments
It’s not so much a case of “nice guys finish last.” They simply get stuck in the middle—and nobody cares about the middle.
Wealthy, Handsome, Strong, Packing Endless Hard-ons: The Impossible Ideals Men Are Expected to Meet
June 23, 2011 By 27 Comments
Sexy Headlines and Skimpy Science: The Debate on Women and Attractive Husbands
June 22, 2011 By 16 Comments
Andrea Doucet reviews the research on whether women should “go ugly” and draws some conclusions.
Can We Talk About Something Important, Please?
June 11, 2011 By Leave a Comment
As a culture we love porn. We love guys who cheat. And we really have a lot of trouble getting honest about what it means to be a man. Readers respond to Weiner and breast augmentation.
An Atheist and a Fine Bottle of Wine
June 5, 2011 By 29 Comments
Roger Durham finds that in discussions about spirituality, asking questions is more important than finding answers.
Dude, Don’t ‘Neg’
May 31, 2011 By 252 Comments
“What’s less authentic than entering into a ‘spontaneous’ social interaction with a script?” Hugo Schwyzer argues that “negging” isn’t cool.
Why Men Should Join SlutWalk
May 24, 2011 By 112 Comments
Los Angeles SlutWalk steering committee member and GMPM columnist Hugo Schwyzer argues that SlutWalk is for men, too.
How to Stare at Women
April 26, 2011 By 175 Comments
Hugo Schwyzer offers some practical advice for checking out women without making them head for the hills.
The Legend of the Barefoot Bandit
April 14, 2011 By 2 Comments
A modern-day folk hero in the tradition of John Dillinger and Pretty Boy Floyd, the Barefoot Bandit captured the imagination of a country going through hard times.
10 Things We Should Be Talking About
April 13, 2011 By 36 Comments
I’m Sorry I’m a Teacher
April 5, 2011 By 40 Comments
Alan Haskvitz, a teacher for 45 years, honestly didn’t mean to place so many states in danger of going bankrupt. He just wanted a secure retirement plan.
Ethical Pickup Artistry
April 4, 2011 By 110 Comments
How Feminists Get the Men’s Rights Movement Wrong
March 14, 2011 By 47 Comments
Josh Kleinberg rejects the idea that feminism and men’s rights are incompatible aims. In our fight for equality, he argues, we’ve got to weed out the reactionary behavior.
Unlocking the Men’s Rights Movement
March 9, 2011 By 62 Comments
Men must be strong enough and vulnerable enough to be men’s rights activists in their everyday lives.
Vocalyze
I am Man, Hear Me Roar!
Roger Durham discusses the loss of intellectual dialog to loud, vitriolic and sometimes personal attacks on character.
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