We Didn’t Do It For Other People. We Did It For Ourselves.


Bob Lanning tells the story of his 46-year polyamorous relationship with two other military men.

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Should All Bathrooms Be Gender Neutral? [video]


For most people, the question of where to go is a given. But for trans*folk, it can be a daily issue. Can this be fixed?

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In Loving Memory of His Wife in Combat Boots


Shane Fairchild lovingly remembers his truck-driving, motorcycle riding, 6-foot tall redheaded woman.

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Voices: a Poem

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We all have different voices. Michael Carosone writes about finding his.

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Stop Acting So Tall and So Gay


On his first day of school, Chris Pappas has a role in a post-apocalyptic Macbeth. His teacher’s note? He’s acting too tall and too gay.

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Call for Submissions: Gay, Bisexual, Asexual Men

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We want the voices of gay, bisexual, and asexual men to be part of the conversation.*

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Neuroscience Proves What We’ve Known All Along: Gender Exists On A Spectrum

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A new study reveals evidence of a neurological distinction between gender identity and biological sex.

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How Watching Porn Improved My Life


Mike Iamele believes that in the right circumstances, porn can be a helpful, rather than harmful, part of a person’s life.

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Honey, Your Husband’s Definitely Gay!


A post-review of TLC’s My Husband’s Not Gay

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Get Your Assumptions Off My Kid


Just because Amelia’s son is gay, it doesn’t mean he’s gender non-conforming.

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Well, Would YOU Want to See This Kind of Movie?


Ged Gilmore performs a social experiment on his mates. He took them to see a movie. While they all enjoyed it immensely, every one of them was annoyed.

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Living in Truth

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Bold and out in New York City but self imposed “straightening up” while back home. Curtis Young wonders if dual identity is holding back the black gay community?

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A Fun Guide to Gender


Confused by all of the discussions about gender? This guide can help you sort it out.

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It’s Time to Ban ‘Reparative Therapy’

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Brynn Tannehill challenges the lies and fear-mongering that are being used to try to keep “reparative” or “conversion therapy” alive.

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Hercules Was My Boyfriend


The best kind of boyfriend doesn’t ridicule you or make fun of you or tell you you’re wrong for how you feel. Even a 5-year-old knows this.

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10 Off-the-Wall Claims About Homosexuality

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There are some pretty wild ideas on homosexuality running around in the media, courtesy of Peter LaBarbera. Here are the rebuttals to some of them.

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