I’m an Otherwise Straight Man (Who Fell in Love with His Best Friend)


It didn’t matter if it didn’t fit my identity. It didn’t matter if it didn’t fit my sexuality. It just mattered if it brought me love.

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Dispelling Myths, Misconceptions and Lies About Gender-Nonconforming Children


As more families open up about their gender-nonconforming children, it becomes increasingly important to put facts before fiction.

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How Not to React When Your Child Tells You He’s Gay


There’s a video currently making the rounds on the internet that highlights what many gay youth face when they come out to their families.

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Southern Gay Men And Interracial Dating


There are a lot of things that are still pretty backwards in the South. Glenn Garner shows us the difficulty of not only being a gay man in the South, but one who may be interested in races other than his own.

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15 Ways to Talk About Sex


When Randall Frederick tells people that he writes about sex, the topic conversation shifts to…sex.

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What Happens When Two Photographers Travel Across the USA Taking Photos of LGBT Families?

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Being a Trans Ally – Where to Begin


Brynn Tannehill highlights how a person can hurt, or help, those they claim to be allies for.

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Trans* Surgeries Don’t Make the Man (or Woman)

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Justin Ropella still finds way too many people who can’t wait to ask questions about his partner’s private parts.

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My Religious Identity Is As Important To Me As My Sexual Identity

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John Russell Stanger was the first openly gay ordained minister in Texas. He explains how his faith helped him come out.

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Stuff We Gay Guys Wish You Wouldn’t Say

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This video of stuff women (and not just women) say to gay men is still just a little too right on. So stop. Please.

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Struggling with “Twink” Envy

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As a young gay man, Glenn Garner struggled with the unrealistic body ideals that pop culture, gay and straight, said were “right” for guys like him.

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Call for Submissions: From Gay, Bi, Asexual, Pansexual, Queer, and Trans* Folk

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Yes, it’s a mix of orientations and identities. And we want stories from you all.

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Rewriting Our Sexual History


Randall Frederick looks at why individuals, even entire communities, rewrite history to conform with their ideology.

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The Duality of Being a Gay Christian


Being a gay Christian in Mississippi has meant a lot of soul-searching for Glenn Garner.

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I Hit Send, or Modern Meltdown [video]

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Steven Boyle’s interactive spoken word performance says as much about the audience as him.

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Understanding the Misunderstood


Stephen Michell explains why festivals like World Pride are important to himself and others in the gay community.

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