Society’s expectations of manliness can cause men to keep their passions in the closet.
This Just In: Attraction Is Complicated
April 9, 2012 By 5 Comments
Ozy Frantz lays out why “men are attracted to X” or “women are attracted to Y” formulations are doomed to failure.
His Black Dress, Revisited
April 4, 2012 By 13 Comments
Panda Three-Way
April 3, 2012 By 106 Comments
Lynn Beisner re-examines the rite of passage that is “first sex” after learning her son lost his virginity in a three-way with an older couple.
Two Fathers, No Mother: Crossing the Big Black Line
April 3, 2012 By 3 Comments
William Lucas Walker’s journey from “gay cliché” boyhood to married fatherhood, via love and loss.
The Knight/Beast Dichotomy
April 2, 2012 By 15 Comments
Just as women are trapped by the stereotypes of the virgin/whore dichotomy, so do good guy/bad guy stereotypes trap men. Ozy Frantz breaks down how these cultural images work.
Two Husbands Since 1976
March 25, 2012 By Leave a Comment
Tim and Earl are two American men together in love since 1976. They married in Canada in 2003. This is their love story.
Prehistoric Rape Machines and Protectors
March 22, 2012 By 78 Comments
If women are blamed for their own victimization, what happens to men? Bridget Welch explores how the dichotomy of virgin-slut provides a dichotomy for men: rapist-protector.
The Gender Dance: Men and Women Going Round and Round–Let’s Find a New Step
March 21, 2012 By 16 Comments
Lisa Levey talks about recognizing your contributions in relationships and how to break free from gender shackles.
On Ownership, Sexual Violence, and Standard Operating Procedures
March 13, 2012 By 40 Comments
In the world of dialogue about sexual violence, it’s time the language include men as more than aggressors. They are also victims, and we must acknowledge their experiences.
Gaze of the Beholder
March 13, 2012 By 26 Comments
It’s not about you, says LabRat. The gaze of the beholder is the reason why you don’t find Twilight appealing, and aren’t supposed to.
God Didn’t Give Her A Penis
March 12, 2012 By 13 Comments
Edgar Ramsey is frustrated that the world rejects his friends’ hopes and dreams based upon their genitals.
Class Reunion
March 10, 2012 By 8 Comments
The Accidental Gay Rights Heroes
March 9, 2012 By 8 Comments
Joanna Schroeder wonders how the real story of the men behind Lawrence v Texas impacts the LGBT-rights movement.
Men and Women Need Each Other. Yes, We Do.
March 8, 2012 By 69 Comments
There seems to be a growing sentiment among many of today’s men and women that, romantically speaking, we no longer need one another.
Women Only? Not Even Close
March 7, 2012 By 103 Comments
Nikki Brown challenges us to think differently about birth control being a “women’s issue”.
Vocalyze
“I think most women need to “trick” themselves into believing that they’re not satisfying some carnal desire.”
This comment was by John Anderson on the post “My First Playboy”, about women and carnal desire.
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