Ten more things Christians say too much but shouldn’t After writing up my first list of Ten Cliches Christians Should Never Use, some folks wrote me with other suggestions. After simmering on it for a while, I came up with a second list of ten to supplement the first. And as there was some confusions [...]

Okay boys and girls, here’s why the opinions of your parents, teachers and preachers don’t really matter on this particular issue.
Clarisse Thorn’s New PUA Ebook
Just in time for International Women’s Day, badass feminist and Friend of NSWATM Clarisse Thorn‘s first book, Confessions of a Pickup Artist Chaser, is available on Kindle. I was lucky enough to be able to read an early copy. Originally, when I got the email, I intended to read the first chapter and then do a [...]
Right… That Did Happen
Super Bowl Commercials, To Everyone’s Surprise, Sexist
Good Consent Part Two
Trigger warning for discussion of rape, abuse and boundary violations. Knowing Your Boundaries This is the most important rule of boundaries: it is okay to set whatever boundaries you want. IT IS OKAY TO SET WHATEVER BOUNDARIES YOU WANT. Our culture (I blame rape culture) has a bunch of rules about what boundaries are the [...]






















“It’s a woman’s job to make her man feel safe — a safe place that doesn’t expect him to do brave things just because he’s a man.”
This is a comment by Kat on the post “A Husband’s Job Is To Create Emotional Safety”.
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