Invisible Father

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Robert Peake believes that for fathers and non-fathers alike, “the best in us involves us giving back in ways that are uniquely male.”

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Awaiting Vesuvius

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When a romance is over, it’s over. The problem according to Jackie Summers, is that no one ever evacuates Pompeii until the volcano erupts.

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When Playboy Bunnies Ruled

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At 17, most girls are filling out college applications. I was nervously auditioning to become a Bunny at the New York Playboy Club.

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Living Father, Zombie Husband

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Every summer, Robert Barsanti returns to Nantucket, where his marriage died—and where his two boys still need him.

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Mission Soccer

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For the varsity soccer players at one San Francisco school, their team is their family, and futbol might be their only ticket to college. Jordan Conn shadowed the team last fall, as they defended their title against a neighborhood rival.

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Finding Julian

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Andrew Cotto loses his son in a museum—and finds a new approach to being a good dad.

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When Skinny Men Go to the Gym

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For the sake of his children, our pasty British friend Ben Wakeling hits the gym. Then he hits the wall. Then the floor.

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Screwing Up

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We asked famous men (and average Joes) to answer the question, “From which of your mistakes did you learn the most?” This is what they said.

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Eat Like a (Good) Man

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A big part of being a Good Man in this weird, wild century involves not eating like an asshole. Josh Tyson tells you how.

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My Dad’s Doppleganger

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Erik Proulx never really knew his father. But friends and relatives keep trying to fill in the blanks.

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Sex & Drugs Made Me a Man

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Jesse Kornbluth thinks character and hard work are great and all, but this essay is about women (oh, and drugs too).

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Man-to-Man With James Franco

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James Franco on trying not to obsess over girls, reading on the toilet, and how he used to be a pain in the ass to work with.

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A Junk-Tank Like Me

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When you’re an addict, “It’s not that you don’t care. It’s that you don’t care enough.”

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In the Army Now: A Report from Iraq

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Army Lieutenant Newman McKay has been in Iraq for one month. This is what he’s learned: 1) It’s hot. 2) The trek to the bathroom is no fun. 3) Never, ever, order the breakfast burrito.

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Here’s the Bad News, Son

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What’s a dad to do when he wants a baby girl but gets a baby boy? If you’re Steve Almond, you freak the hell out.

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A Son’s Life Sentence

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Jay Cooper was only two when his father was sent away for a crime he didn’t commit. Twenty-five years later, can father and son pick up where they left off?

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