A man asks Eli and Josie how to help his female best friend stop using men and then dumping them.
Best of Sex & Relationships
Stinky Orders Viagra: An Animated Video Adventure
Mark Greene’s alter ego, Stinky opens a mysterious spam email and goes on an internet adventure to a real live virtual online pharmacy.
My Ex-Wife’s Wedding: Best. Wedding. Ever.
After a marriage fraught with difficulties, Steve Jaeger finds the wedding of his ex-wife to be a day of joy.
A Sex Drive Parked in Neutral
After being molested at the age of thirteen, Marcus Williams struggled to reconcile his libido with his fear of making an unwanted advance.
The Real Meaning of MILFs
Madison Young reminds us that men are turned on by the same women who give birth and breastfeed.
The Results are In: You Can’t Measure Promiscuity
My single favorite fill-in response to the question “does identifying someone as promiscuous disqualify them as a potential sexual partner?” was: Is he holding a guitar?
Harry Was Wrong: Lust Doesn’t Have to Ruin a Platonic Friendship
One of our great myths about men is that lust invariably cancels out the empathy.
Should Women Really Go Ugly?
Vicki Larson tells women not to go hot. Tom Matlack disagrees. A frank discussion ensues.
In Defense of Dating Your Coworker
It goes against traditional wisdom and hackneyed clichés—fishing from the company pond, crapping where you eat, dipping the pen in the company ink—but the truth is, it can be kind of awesome.
Nice Guys: Finish First Without Pickup Gimmickry
When Older Guys Lust After Young Women
Ladies: We’d Prefer You Didn’t Fake It
Seriously. Don’t feign helplessness. If you can open the pickle jar yourself, go for it.
Why Does It Matter How Many Partners She’s Had?
Hugo Schwyzer explains why guys are so preoccupied with getting women’s sex stats—and why they should let it go.
Why Don’t Men Settle Down?
It’s not that they aren’t interested in monogamous relationships, Hugo Schwyzer argues. It’s that they’re waiting around, in vain, for a sign that she’s “the one.”
What Your Marriage Needs to Survive
Even stellar relationships lose their spark over time. Here are the ingredients of a lasting, fruitful partnership, and techniques for weathering the stormy periods.
Why Don’t Men Initiate Divorce?
Hugo Schwyzer argues that men are too willing to muddle through a mediocre marriage—and women are less inclined to settle.