It is easy to pass our frustrations and fears onto others and takes work to break that way of thinking.
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This comment was by Kitty in reference to the post – 4 Subtle Clues That Reveal a Man’s Character
Thanks. I need to look at how I talk to my husband. I frequently come from a place of scared, hurt and resentful. We’re going through a very difficult time, I’m clean and he’s in active addiction. But I do realize that I was only able to get clean after I realized how much I was loved and that continuing to use would have been abusing the love others had for me.
I know I can’t believe that I can change him or that I have any control over the situation but I can do my best to come from a place of love, forgiveness, and understanding of what he’s going through. I have been where he is and I hope to still be here when he’s ready to get clean. I’m aware of the need for self-care and rest assured that I attend support group meetings to help me. I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate your message.
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