This is a comment by LynnBeisner on the post “A Call to the Sacred Masculine: Ten Daring Invitations From the Divine Feminine“.
LynnBeisner said:
“Can I just give an alternate call to the divine masculine from the divine feminine:
“Show up, which is to say, many of us love having you guys around and we are especially thrilled when you are authentic. Don’t ‘ravish us’ because you read it in an online magazine, let us see your true sexuality. Don’t make an emotional display to give us permission to be something—just be who you are.
“We genuinely like you. We genuinely enjoy your comapany; many of us genuinely want to have sex with many of you and some of us love some of you so much it takes our breath away.
“So just be here with us, and share this amazing trip called life.”
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““Show up, which is to say, many of us love having you guys around and we are especially thrilled when you are authentic. Don’t ‘ravish us’ because you read it in an online magazine, let us see your true sexuality. Don’t make an emotional display to give us permission to be something—just be who you are.”
yeah yeah, here we go with the ‘ be yourself ‘ hype over and over again. *rolleyes*
An ordinary guy simply isnt adequate for rough sex and dominating a woman in bed. He simply will turn her off.
“Dont ravish us unless youre tall, handsome, have a great body, charm and social significance”
Women set different sexual boundaries with different men based on how attractive they are.
For rough sex and submission, women require attractive, masculine and dominant men.
well to be fair everybody set sexual bounduaries, at least most of us.
One person’s definition of “ravish” is another person’s “yawn, this again?” So when I think “ravish” I’m thinking full on BDSM domination where I’m covered in welts and bruises. I don’t think most women or people in general are into that so I will let the more vanilla people speak for themselves. In that regard, my best experience of being “ravished” was with someone over 60 who was not masculine, not fit, not attractive in a conventional way, but is the best sex I’ve ever had. I noticed people’s sexual preferences, how they view sexuality, and what they like varies… Read more »
At least, you think what you’ve seen so far is who we really are. Is it also possible that the man you love just the way he is may have been putting on an act in the first place?
Many men feel compelled to be different from their true selves in order to attract women in the first place. (As many women do when they want to attract a man.) I wonder where those women are who want a man to be exactly himself, without polish or strategy, on the first date. They do exist, but how common are they?
Easy enough to say in general. Let’s hear from the guys who weren’t cute enough to carry it off.