This comment by truth001 on the post The 3 Most Damaging Myths About the Sex Lives of Men
Very correct analysis. I am also fed up with the general assertion that “Men Want Sex All The Time”. It is total bullshit, at least it’s not the case for me and my male friends.
We need to emotionally connect with the person and then only are able to get physical.
And we do not need to eye blink…think sex…eye blink…think sex…eye blink…think sex…
It will bear too much on our existence. There are football, mobiles, studies, pursuit of scout missions, thrill of scuba diving, concern for our parents, how to make our career – also on our mind.
There may be some/many males who may be sex-obsessed, but that can also be said about many females too.
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This preoccupation with sex seems a little silly. Intimacy includes sex and not all sex ends in intercourse (and sometimes all you want is sex, whether you’re a woman or a man). Both men and women enjoy being close, intimate, and all that goes with Sex in a broader sense. Men want the same thing as women and it is misguided expectations of performance and perception that men or women, as the case may be, are responsible for their partner’s satisfaction and happy ending. As long as we keep dividing intimacy into separate standards based on gender, we will just… Read more »