This is a comment by Danny on the post “Confessions of An Ex-Sex Kitten“.
What would that cost be? What’s wrong with that “horndog male” role? Why should we be looked down upon for wanting something like that?
The problem with the “horndog male” role isn’t the role itself but the why behind fulfilling it. By all means if a given guy wants to have a sex life that fits that bill because that is the type of sex life he wants then he should go out and do it and there is nothing wrong with that. I’m not one of those hypocrites that will say that women shouldn’t be bound by rules when it comes to sex in one breath but then say that men should be bound in the next.
What I’m talking about is whether I would want that type of sex life for myself because its what I want or because that’s what other people want me to have because I’m a guy.
I’m working pretty hard now to determine which parts of the established male role I actually want to partake of. What I’m saying is if I had been sexually active younger in life that would be another thing I would have to think though.