“Why the talk of ‘rape culture’ so often but not ‘murder of black boys’ culture’?”

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  1. So, why is it that black boys and men are murdered at that 500% higher rate every day of every year and none of that takes place? Each and every day the response is silence and indifference.
    Simple. Even for as much as people want to stand up and say something on the state of how black boys and men are treated at the end of the day they still want to keep it all on race. In the minds of some people the fact that they are men and boys is just a secondary description what does matter is that they are black.

    I’ve noticed this in my own time of talking to people and blogging. If I say something about my race I can find support. But if I say something about my gender those same people will either go silent, try to explain away why its not important, or even actively turn against me (which is why most of the blogging I do is about men and only a little is about race).

    Look at education. Boys lag behind girls in nearly every age and race demographic (even white boys lag behind while girls) but time and again the education issue on boys and men often gets shaped being about minority boys instead of boys in general. (And honestly education is one of the times where I honestly don’t blame white guys in the slightest bit for being mad. No one likes being overlooked in time of need so why should we act surprised that they are being told that the education problem is about race and race only?)

    (This is why when it comes to feminists and MRAs I find myself torn in two when it comes my identity as a black male. Most feminists only care about me because I’m black. Most MRAs only care about me because I’m male. I won’t allow either to cut me in half like that.)

  2. I see a lot of the pundits turning away from this issue because of two things.
    Misandry. By highlighting black male deaths it doesn’t help women in any way, so the pundits who seem to be the watch-dogs in the media of the stories that go national (like the editors who make sure missing women and girl stories that go national are always about girls pretty white and blonde–never over-weight, black, or god forbid boys).
    The other is that in order to address this problem we have to address problems with inner city neighborhoods from the ground up. That includes fatherlessness (which affects blacks much more than the national average) and the fact that most black males murdered are murdered by another black male 94% of the time.

    This doesn’t feed into the liberal message that there are no racial differences (not that I think their are. I believe the issues affecting poor inner city neighborhoods [of which blacks are much more likely to make up that demographic] are sociological and economic and familial in origin, not genetics).

    It also doesn’t feed into black leaders mantra that whites are always to blame. All the pundits exist to feather their own nests, and there is no goods to be gotten from centering on black males other than TRUE humanitarianism–and that is one rare animal these days.

    Also, my understanding of DOJ murder statistics is that black men suffer 6 to 7 times the rate of homicide of white men, and 11 times that of white women.

  3. Carl Mode says:

    The real reason is MONEY. Plain and Simple money. A cause that helps women makes more money than one that helps men. It really isn’t complicated at all. That is how our society works now. Look at breast cancer for example. It is assumed to be a womans disease and you can fling a dead cat without hitting an ad for breast cancer, you go to a store and now see a pink product. Women are big business.

  4. Transhuman says:

    “So, why is it that black boys and men are murdered at that 500% higher rate every day of every year and none of that takes place? Each and every day the response is silence and indifference.”

    The disposable status of men has never been effectively challenged, by leaders in any field or even by the rank and file of ordinary people.

  5. It’s all part of keeping the 1% (more like .01%) in power over the 99%, by keeping the 99% all divided and at each others throats. Women against men is a huge help to the 1%, especially since it’s liberals who feed this form of feminism, and it’s still powerful men nearer the top that could threaten the 1%.

    The prisoner’s dilemma of American politics.

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