We know when it’s wrong (though we don’t always admit it). How do we know when it’s right?
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I’ve written a lot about unhealthy relationships and tried to identify the dynamics of dysfunction to help readers recognize them in their own lives. This short video from YourTango features a panel of experts discussing the characteristics of healthy relationships.Below are a few. If these basic things aren’t happening in your relationship, it’s time to evaluate it and consider getting help.
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You never have to feel like you have to stop being who you are to please your partner.
You feel there’s hope you’ll be able to communicate and be heard and get somewhere.
You’re able to argue and repair.
You don’t self-edit.
There has to be a willingness to look into the sex life.
The best foreplay is the communication.
Commitment.
Shared vision.
Attention and intention.
Trust.
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