Parents for Occupy Wall Street

Parents are protesting, Lisa Duggan writes, because they want a better future for their children.

It started simply enough. Dana Glazer and I (Dana is the documentary filmmaker of The Evolution of Dad) were playing email-tag, trying to find a day to have lunch, when he wrote:

Do you think there’s a parenting angle to the protests currently going on at Wall Street? I’m itching to go down there with a camera but was thinking that maybe there’s a mom / dad angle to this? What do you think?

Not only did I like his angle, I had been thinking along similar lines.

Avi Nathman (aka @TheMamaFesto) and I had just finished drafting an open letter to the 2012 Presidential Candidates, which addresses many of the same issues Occupy Wall Street and the numerous Occupations around the world do. We chose to sign the letter, “From the Mothers and Fathers of America.” (More on the letter later, and how you can participate.)

Before I could hit send, Dana wrote back to say he had found this group while Googling—Parents For Occupy Wall Street. They were planning the world’s largest sleepover in Zuccotti Park on Friday, October 21, and he was going to be there to film the event—and did I want to come?

Lock Your Doors, Mary: It’s Those Dirty Community Organizers

“The newspaper said, “Say, what you doing in bed?
I said, “We’re only trying to get us some peace.”

Kirby Desmarais, the organizer of PFOWS was younger than I expected her to be, not yet 30. She’s a a young mother, too—her daughter is only 18 months old (and adorable). She manages EverythingInddependent.com, a company she built herself, and which she runs with her husband, Mark. Everything promises to help independent artists and bands find success, “through management, placement, networking and analytics.”

Despite their already-busy life, full of work and family obligations, Kirby and Mark were able to organize PFOWS in about eight days—from passionate concept to successful execution (over 200 people stayed the night)—including a website, a banner, and hot yellow t-shirts reading “Parent SECURITY.” Oh, and they also secured a CNN crew to embed themselves for the duration; beloved kid’s musician Dan Zanes and band to play for the crowd (“Pay Me my Money Down”, of course, among other favorites), and Dana and I to film the event, as well.

That’s right—just your typical law-less, job-less, communists-hippie types. Like those NY Post headlines warned you.

Kirby and her husband and daughter had visited Zuccotti a few times before and noticed many parents with kids doing the same. She got the idea to create a safe, designated place for families within the park, so parents could participate in the occupation and take care of their kids’ needs at the same time. She reached out to the organizers of OWS, aka the General Assembly, with her idea for a family sleep-in.

The GA welcomed Kirby’s idea and the group and said they would designate an area on the Broadway side of Zuccotti park for the congregating parents. Kirby also spoke to the New York City police department to discuss safety issues, and together they helped her devise the security guidelines employed that night (all parents had to bring a child to be welcomed into the space, show photo ID, and sign in and out) as well as an exit strategy, should the need arise to leave the space quickly.

Kirby was expecting 200 parents to show. During the course of the evening, from 4 PM when the first few parents and kids trickled in, to 10 PM when I finally left, they would have to expand the roped-in space two times.

By the time the event ended Saturday morning, over 500 people had signed in at the checkpoint in Zuccotti Park.

Mommy, Why Do We Occupy?

Many people are waiting for the organizers of Occupy Wall Street (and by extension, Parents for OWS) to declare an official agenda, and publish a list of demands. But my experience at the park Friday night tells me that’s not going to happen anytime soon.

In my opinion, Occupy Wall Street’s first accomplishment was to bring international attention to the devastating effects of the criminal action(s) of the multi-national banks and financial institutions on American taxpayers—specifically the years of fraudulent lending that created the mortgage-apocalypse, the housing collapse and the 2008 recession—which has yet to be prosecuted (although the Federal Housing Finance Agency is now in the process of suing 17 of the financial institutions involved).

OWS’ next action, or actions, will be determined by the crowd.

The people organizing and participating in Occupy Wall Street are practicing (and expanding, daily) a horizontal, consensus-driven, living form of democracy. Here, the whole truly reflects the sum and the strength of the individual parts. Yes, there is a body driving the concept and execution of OWS—the General Assembly—but there is no one, elected, governor of the park directing it’s actions.

The head of this body keeps changing, depending upon the needs and desires of the group, at that moment. This structure may ensure it’s survival—if you chop off the “head” of OWS, another will grow in its place, immediately.

Members of various working committees—completely volunteer-powered—execute the tasks necessary to keep things flowing in Zuccotti; i.e., food service, sanitation, press and publicity, and daily events, like hosting PFOWS.

Direct Actions, such as the march to Columbus Circle on Friday the 21st, to join Pete Seeger, is voted upon by everyone in the park, using the now infamous human megaphone method. (An incredible thing to witness).

What Do the Parents Want?

Some of the values of PFOWS are reflected in the sign posted under their banner Friday night, pictured above. The broad mission they commit to is written on their website:

With our children’s best interests in mind we join together peacefully to support the Occupy Wall Street movements across the US on our children’s behalf. We’re speaking for the 99% that can’t speak up for themselves.

and

[We are] a collective community for Parents & Organzations in support of Occupy Wall Street. We choose to remain nonpartisan and offer a platform and forum for all to be heard in support of the Occupy Wall Street Movement.

Isn’t that the first job of any parent? To speak for those who cannot speak for themselves? To protect their children and teach their children to use non-violent means, to “use their words,” to express their demands and concerns?

I found no one at this group advocating for the re-distribution of anyone’s wealth. What I found were thoughtful, educated, concerned parents joined together to protest an injustice, and to re-assert the democratic values this country was founded upon.

These parents believe that their children can build a life rich with reward and meaning—without diminishing the lives of others in the process.

For further information about Parents For Occupy Wall Street, visit their Facebook page, which details upcoming meetings and actions.

Originally appeared at The MotherHood Online.

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About Lisa Duggan

Lisa Duggan is the Co-Founder and publisher of The Parent du Jour, an online book about contemporary parenting. She is also the publisher of TheMotherHoodBlog.com. Follow her on Twitter@motherhoodmag.

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