When Your Parent Dies

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About Joe Cardillo

Joe Cardillo is a media professional, DIY musician, and writer in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He believes the point of life is to connect to other people and acknowledge the absurdity/terror/joy of the human condition. You can find him on Twitter @joecardillo and read more of his writing on his blog, trialofthecentury.wordpress.com

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  1. My Mom died of early onset dementia after 13 years of going downward with the disease. She was 63 when she died. I thought it would be easier after my mother died because I have been grieving a long time but it was not. The fact I did not need to go to the nursing home, etc, was hard to get over.

    I try to remember the good times. She was not mentally well even before the diagnosis but if I think back when I was little, I can remember good things.

    • I noticed the same thing with my mom. The grieving started well before it was apparent she was going to die, and living a life of grief became the norm….similar grief with an unhealthy marriage, now I’m recovering from both. You get attached to that, grief becomes part of your character and it takes a lot of patience to work out of that.

  2. I suppose I embrace this philosophy to a paralyzing fault sometimes, but the passage of time makes me ever more cognizant that there are a whole lot of negative things (slow lines, irritating people, the frustrations of life that we get all hung up about) that just are a waste of precious time. Thank you for sharing this.

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