Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert has 3 Deep Dive Questions About Your Divorce Intended To Set Your Heart Free…
Question: How do I dive inward and claim my responsibility for my part of the failed marriage?
Answer: Wow, I’m totally impressed. It’s a sign of great courage to be willing to deep dive to take responsibility for where you weren’t being or doing what was required for your marriage to flourish. It’s so easy to blame another, and easy to blame yourself… yet to truly LEARN, GROW and EVOLVE… totally inspiring.
Here are some questions to get your started…
- Where did you go on autopilot? stop nourishing the relationship? take her for granted? not make feeding the marriage a priority?
- Where did you not speak up and tell the truth? Were you angry, disappointed, ashamed, frustrated, emasculated…afraid of rejection, so you kept it to yourself?
- Where did you let things go unhealed? Wounds either heal, or build upon one another. Sometimes there’s just too much damage done over too much time, three strikes you’re out.
- I know I said three, and I put three in the video, yet writing this I also have a super deep question: Where did you not trust your knowing, your awareness, your gut right from the get go before you even proposed? This ones a doozer because in hindsight we can see where we chose not to see red flags, we chose from loneliness or desperation, we chose from social or family pressure, we chose from convenience.
Now the key is… can you answer these questions and not beat yourself up? Awareness is sensational to help you grow… yet if you immediately pummel it with, You’re such an idiot! then you’re right back where you started. Or worse.
So what does it take to take responsibility and not judge yourself? Kindness. Compassion. A healed inner child. A heart that’s being put back together. Treating yourself and seeing yourself as the Universe does.
That’s no small order… and I’m still working on it. And yet it’s the key to awakening your noble badass. For you to soar, shine and penetrate the world with your grandeur… there can’t be walls, blocks, limitations, self doubt, incessant hesitancy, self sabotage, and a debilitating inner critic. Inside needs to feel safe, approved of, connected to YOU and Source… Home.
A great way to start that journey is my www.GetHerToSayYes.com report and video series. Even one small nugget can shift your whole reality forever. Dare ya. 🙂 xox
And for the gentleman who asked me this question, if you let my [email protected] know Subj: I’m the deep dive guy, then it’s my pleasure to wave my “Find Your Perfect Mate” Strategy Session fee, and provide a complementary session to get you headed in the right direction for healing, integration, a healthy solid relationship with yourself, which leads to a healthy hot intimate partnership with your ideal woman, when you’re ready.
Huge love, endless blessings, Allana xoxo
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Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.