“I’m not an NFL Linebacker, Batman or an Underwear Model… so do I stand a chance at being a Noble Badass?” Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt reveals…
Question: I watched your How To Be A Noble Badass Video. It made me question my worth…I know I’m a good man, yet I have more ‘feminine’ energy than most men. I’m a meditator, quieter in disposition, not a huge stocky man. While I want to be a Noble Badass, I just don’t feel like a stand a chance.
Answer: My love, forgive me for not defining my terms. And thank you for helping me to reveal what I believe women yearn for in ALL men… which I call ‘noble badass’.
- Presence: Noble refers to a man who is healed in his heart… so he can breath and not retreat to his spinning mind, who can lean into discomfort and not hide, run or blame… who can stay in the moment not shrink back and exit for safety. That has nothing to do with the size of his body (or cock, or wallet). In fact a colleague likes to honor men who are ‘alpha introverts’ who mistakingly believe because they are not expressively bold or extroverted, they aren’t a noble badass. James Bond is understated, yes?
- The Zone: I get turned on by a man who has found his gift, who knows when he loses all sense of time and sinks into the zone of his bliss… it could be a sport, music, cooking, making love, gardening, being on the water… it really doesn’t matter, yet he allows himself and the Universe to be ONE in the moment… watching him makes me weak in the knees… to me that’s badass to never give up until you find your sweet spot, and it’s noble because you’re letting Life have it’s way with you, surrendered in rapture, out of control in your bliss. Again, you need not wear flashy clothes or look a certain way to be and do this, yes?
- Don’t Give a Crap: There are the men who pretend they don’t care what others think of them, yet they are arrogant, condescending and I can sense this outward mask is covering inward insecurity. They are quick to deflect, blame, put down, self deprecate or say they don’t give a crap… yet they do. Truly a man who doesn’t give a crap need not defend a thing. Truth requires no defense. These men have a quiet confidence, or a freedom of dorky sexy exuberance… they are living in a reality beyond another’s approval, for they approve of themselves… not giving a crap isn’t in reaction to another… it’s a true spaciousness of being where their priority is in What’s Possible To Create Today? Savor Today? Give Today? Receive Today?
While I’m not a statistician, over the past 17 yrs I’d say about 1-3% of men are true Noble Badasses… it’s Consciousness, Being Awakened. Not perfect. Yet vibrating in this reality yet not of it. (and I’m not saying I’m there either… yet getting there and I’ll never give up.)
I wish I could say the path is working harder, trying harder… for men are hard workers…yet it seems the path is humility: bankruptcy, she left you for another man, deep betrayal and embezzlement at work, sexual disfunction, unhealed wounds from childhood that have created a string of unfulfilling relationships…
Thus it’s through surrender not pushing that you come ‘home’ to their grandeur… to self love, connection to Source, safety found within that no circumstance can take away… the capacity to keep your heart open in the face of anything… and sit in the fire.
This is my humble gift to offer great men: the safe honoring non judgmental unconditionally loving space to BE with all that, let it burn as your phoenix rises from the flame… in the space of a kind unwavering woman who sees the King in you and invites him forth.
A great place to dive deeper into this journey is my complementary report and videos series www.GetHerToSayYes.com. And once you read that and enjoy my newsletters and videos on GMP and other syndicates, should that place inside that you trust beyond your mind… that place inside that knows the Truth for you… should that place guide you to connect with me as your partner in crossing this last chasm home to your noble badass nature, I invite you to connect with me via my [email protected] to book a strategy session. Perhaps I even dare you, challenge you to connect with me… I desire to ignite the potentially hopeless or despondent part of you to harness frustration and rise in potency and meet me face to face, heart to heart, soul to soul… so as to literally create a new reality for your life, your relationships, your sexual expression, your legacy.
Or have another beer, work a few more hours, avoid the heat and watch 37 yrs old become 47 become 57…
I hope you choose to sit in the fire… my client’s success stories prove that anything is possible… yet it takes courage and humility to step up and let go, to BE a Noble Badass. And I know you can do it. 😉
Great love, honor and celebration of your inherent grandeur, Allana xox
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That was a really annoying video. I tried to watch it twice with little success. Who the eff cares if you are a badass of not? Don’t try to be something you are not. Lean into discomfort! Lol