This comment was by bud, on the post Straight Guy in Bed With Another Man
I find it sorta amusing. Straight guys have no fear about going off to war possibly getting injured or killed. They have no fear about violent sports. But the fears they do have are: afraid to sleep in another bed with a guy, afraid to show affection towards another guy. Some are even afraid to be naked in front of other guys (some wash their genitals with their swimming suit on). Weird.
Straight guys have no fear about going off to war possibly getting injured or killed. They have no fear about violent sports We have fear of war or physical damage and pain…….. But the man box requires that we overcome those fears and go on…….even as 100 year ago, millions went on “over the top” to certain death….Great grandpa at gallipoli ……society created that man box for it’s own purposes…..reinforced it to feed the cannons,tank,bombs. Order of the White Feather anyone? Everyone other than a madman has fear………Fear of shame can be made larger than the fear of death……That is… Read more »