There is no need to get offended!
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This comment was by Shane in reference to the post – 8 Reasons Men Need to Deal with Women’s Rejection Better
If the woman said a simple no, and wasn’t rude about it, they don’t deserve anger and vitriol. Heck, no one deserves it.
You’re not supposed to date someone just because they asked you out whether it’s a man or woman.
There are problems with both genders in society and this article is addressing one involving men, and guys here get really butt hurt over it.
There are decent people out there OF COURSE. But guys here are getting offended: “Oh hey! There’s something wrong with women too!” instead taking advice. Yes, there’s something wrong women too, a lot of them can be catty and petty. They also have hard time being rejected too, but they initiate less.
If the behaviors in the article don’t apply to you then you’re likely already a decent person. Why get mad?
I’ve turned people down and I’ve been turned down. It feels better to walk away a mature person as well as seeing the other person do the same when the roles are reversed. But many people, especially men prefer to throw a tantrum. If the girl is a bitch while rejecting me, then they were never worth my time. I misevaluated her and need to walk away.
Move on. But some men are too proud to take advice which works to the other men’s advantage.
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