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About Harris O'Malley

Harris O'Malley provides geek dating advice at his blog Paging Dr. NerdLove, as well as writing the occasional guest review for and appearing on the podcast The League of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen. He can be found dispensing snark and advice on Facebook and Twitter (@DrNerdLove.)

Dr. NerdLove is not really a doctor.


  1. Excellent attention to detail! Didn’t miss a beat! And you’re so right on!

  2. Personally, my experience has shown me that with most women, going slowly with girls you think will be nice is the way to go. You give her the signals you like her, and keep it up just enough. Too much and she responds and it tells you this will in general not end well. Too little and she gets confused. So be yourself. Let her take the iniative to let you know, because she will, and for the most part you’ll be fine. But be yourself and above all do NOT be attached to the immediate outcome. If you think you’ll not run into her again, then ask for her number. Or better yet, carry cards and give her one. It shows respect, and she’ll remember you at least for that one.

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