Emma Lawson Offers Tips to Keep Your Lady Smiling
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It can be said that your home is actually an extension of who you are, because it largely contributes to your mood and affects productivity. Even the slightest adjustments can impact the levels of happiness, which is why you should change some of the habits and routines in order to make yourself and the others around much happier. Here is a list of things that will make all the wives, mothers and sisters much more satisfied at their own home.
1. Do Small Favours for Her, Expecting Nothing in Return
The hectic lifestyle often does not leave enough time to do something for our beloved ones – not even the smallest favour that can seem totally irrelevant. However, that is not irrelevant at all, simply because the small things are those that matter. Making your wife’s or mom’s bed in the morning is just one of the things that will certainly put a smile on her face. Take the trash instead of them in the morning, and they will appreciate your gesture. Being kind is great: it costs nothing, and it will make both sides feel great.
2. Show Her That You Appreciate Her Effort
Expressing appreciation is essential in any kind of relationship, and such a gesture will make women much happier, both when it comes to private and professional life. Let your wife know that you have never drunk better coffee in your life. Tell her that those fried chicken legs and French fries are beyond delicious. Say that you appreciate everything she does for your family, and make her feel proud. If she feels worthwhile, she will be happy.
3. Keep the Home Clean
Even though this may sound quite awkward, it is indeed essential that you keep the home clean. Everyone will instantly feel better, and that will certainly keep stress levels low. This is not a job exclusively for women, which is why we are trying to emphasize its importance. Of course, we don’t expect that you grab a mop and start washing floor – but you can at least collect all of those dirty socks that are stacked under the bed, and put them into the laundry basket. See, it’s not that hard after all!
4. Buy Some Goodies on Your Own
It is well-known that women are usually those who are in charge of home decoration, however, it really does not have to be like that. Even the tiniest goody, such as a photo frame or a bedside lamp, will make your wife think that you really care about the same things as she does. Even bathroom accessories, such as a bath mat or a soap dispenser will do the trick – just make sure that their colour matches the overall colour scheme in your bathroom. Needless to say, your wife will be delighted to see the latest addition to your carefully decorated home.
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5. Make a Dinner for Her
This definitely does not mean that you have to be as skilful as Jamie Oliver himself in order to complete this task. It is not about the skills – it is all about the gesture. Being a very important part of our lives, food is also one of the best ways to impress someone you care about. Prepare your wife’s or mum’s favourite dish, and wait for them to come home from work – the smile on her face will make you know that all the effort was worth it. Pampering her palate is something that will make any woman happy.
As you can see, women do not need much to be happy. It is true that little things are the most important ones, and these small gestures are in some way tokens of appreciation for everything they have been doing for us. Be kind, supportive, and appreciative – and you are halfway there!
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Yes. Of course both partners should give that 110% and appreciation, but for a more traditional leaning home? A guy has to remember the little things, the little appreciations extended for all she does. If I even think about eating, she’s there asking if she can make something for me. Cooks every night that she can. My job? “Thank you hun, it was great” clear the table every time. She wakes to morning coffee, car warmed up….and I still feel as if I owe her for all she does. I don’t do beds though! Key. Find your best friend. Marry… Read more »
Hey Emma,
Great advice. Since a relationship is a two way street what are 5 thing can I expect my GF to do to make me happier at home? I cant wait to show her the list. Thanks!!!
I’ll do my best and thank you for the homework assignment 🙂