Wellcasts’s follow up video on how to break free of the friend zone when you want a relationship.
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If you want your crush to stop seeing you as just a friend, stop treating and speaking to them like one. How? Well? Flirt!
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The second she says she is not interested, WALK AWAY right then and there. No explanations or excuses are necessary.
My rule of thumb is don’t get in to the friend zone in the first place unless you have accepted that they will be platonic female friends and then treat them as such. For every women you meet, you have to decide if you like them to be more than a friend or not, if more than a friend, then flirt. Flirt enough and she will get the hint and either flirt back or she will be nice and smile and move on. If she flirts back, or at least has a positive response and has her feet in your… Read more »
I’m not sure flirting would work for me because I’ve flirted with women I’ve had no romantic interest in and I’m pretty sure they had no romantic interest in me. My Swedish friend has a husband who she adores and three children. She’s far removed from the days she was a lingerie model and she’s aware of it. I know I’ll never see bikini pics, but she flirts right back. Like everybody, she enjoys feeling attractive. FYI: There was a time we both went to the bathroom at the same time so I suggested we just go into the gender… Read more »
Ace. I guess I was referring to the way a woman, finding out the guy she gets to help paint her apartment wants something more out of the relationship than a used drop cloth, might feel he’s been dishonest or something. Or by now he feels like a brother and messing around with a brother is icky. Or he’s taken himself out of the exciting thing by being…unexciting so long that he’ll never be exciting. Can’t get out of the hole. Maybe you could do the zone for a limited time without engendering these possibilities. What’s that time?
Five days and after that it’s too late. Just a ball park number, but it’s a good start.
So we have three seconds is staring (sexual harassment). Five days in the friend zone without resolution and you have to end it. I’m a numbers guy so this is working for me. We get enough numbers in place and we can end the gender wars.
P.S. Still looking for my first friend zone relationship. Maybe we can have a video explaining how to get out of the no zone.
It would seem that after a certain period in the zone, an attempt to move out of it would seem….creepy, outrageous, a betrayal, an indicator of being weak, of having been dishonest….
How long is that period? How late is too late?