Have you ever walked by a mirror, caught a glimpse of your reflection and thought, Yikes?! Or, do you frequently stand in front of the mirror focusing intently on one or two parts of your body you absolutely hate?
Well, there’s an expression that says, “your perception is your reality,” and this is especially true than when it comes to your body. But you know what the irony is? What you look at and abhor, your partner will look at and lust after.
So, I’ve compiled a list of the five body parts that you might hate, but your significant othertotally loves:
1. Your boobs.
Hate your boobs? Think they’re too large, small or otherwise oddly shaped? Well, the next time you’re with your partner, ask him what he likes most about your boobs. His answer may surprise you.
2. Your tummy.
Contrary to popular belief, your partner does not care if you have washboard abs and a flat stomach or not. He loves you and your tummy just the way you are.
3. Your butt.
As long as there is a suitable cushion for their pushin’, your partner will be satisfied with the size of your butt, no matter how big or small you think it is.
4. Your vagina.
C’mon, admit it. There was a time where you held a mirror down there an examined your vagina’s appearance. It might not be aesthetically pleasing to you, but to your partner it’s not what it looks like but what it represents that counts (though there are people that do love the way vaginas look)!
5. Your legs.
Have you ever wondered why the sexy women in TV and movies are always in short skirts and heels? These areas are very sensual and erotic. If you want to understand just how much of an impact your legs have on your partner, put on a skirt, some heels and enjoy their reaction.
If you want to spice up your relationship, ask your partner what he likes and loves most about your body and really listen to him. You’ll probably find a new confidence in yourself and a newfound love for those body parts you used to hate.
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Originally appeared at YourTango.com
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SIlke – No fan of this article myself. It’s not like women need yet another article where a man talks about how much men like women’s body parts as if our breasts, legs or vaginas walk around on their own – completely disconnected from an actual human being. What would truly be wonderful if more articles existed about the *other* things they liked about women that ran deeper. But, how would you prefer Joe refer to that part of the female anatomy as?
Dear dear Joe
No normally shaped women can look at her vagina with a mirror, not can you look at it .
The vagina is the birth canal.
And stop telling women how much you love our body if you have not even got the knowledge of basic anatomy.
Sorry.