Collin Slattery is taking a break from Facebook and Twitter. Could you survive a month-long fast from social media?
I am a product of the digital age. I got my first computer at the age of 6; I was on the internet at the age of 8; and I was doing social media by the age of 14. Our social interactions have increasingly moved online and for many millennials, it is the primary way we socialize with other people. It is also a source of great stress, anxiety, and feelings of depression. Most of us cannot even comprehend what life is like without status updates, check-ins, and tweets.
I am about to find out. For the next 30 days I will not be using social media. That means no Facebook, no Twitter, no Foursquare, no Google+, and the rest. I will attempt to see how to have an analog social life as opposed to a digital one. The rules I will be following for the challenge are as follows:
- No Facebook, Twitter, Foursquare, or other usage of social media allowed. The exception will be use of my corporate Facebook and Twitter accounts for work.
- Direct one-on-one communication through digital mediums is allowed (i.e. text messages, AIM conversations, e-mails)
- Use of Meetup to facilitate real life socialization is allowed.
How will this change my perception of socializing? Will I have less social anxiety? Will I feel more engaged as a member of society or more isolated? Will I feel more or less lonely? What will I be able to learn about modern society and our digital interactions? This is truly uncharted territory for me, but I am interested to see what happens.
Check back for updates throughout Collin’s experiment and afterward, for updates and reflections on how taking a break from social media affects his mental states, emotions, and social calendar. Will he miss the instant gratification of reading his friends’ status updates? Or will this experience change his habits for good?
Read more of Collin’s experiment:
30 Days Without Social Media: One Week In
30 Days Without Social Media: Two Weeks In (coming soon)
Read more about Freedom and Solitude on The Good Life.
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About Collin Slattery
After a initial, 2 month long burst of enthusiasm for Facebook, I have a taken a Luddite-like pass on all Facebook and other social media. That was 2-3 years ago- Don’t miss it.
I have a cell phone, texting, and email. If we can’t communicate, share with each other, the important things that are going on in our lives with something other than what’s listed above, I guess I’m going to have to miss out.
These are my curmudgeonly remarks for the day.
When I was a kid, we had to dial in to a BBS to talk to each other on the internet. And we were grateful for BBSes.
Thank you, CajunMick. We need more curmudgeons to remind the youngstahs that there once was a world in which we dialed phone numbers.
Good luck on your digital weaning experiment! Facebook friends are more fun in person! Perhaps you can hook up with your fellow Stuyvesant alumni and get them to try your experiment …that might be an interesting article!