The Trojan Christmas

December 25, 1996. Or as I call it, the day Christmas changed forever.

I was 17 and spending my final Christmas at home with my family before heading off to college. Like most families, we have our Christmas-morning traditions and we happily engaged in them that day. First, we open the presents under the tree.

My brother and I know that my mom gives us the same gifts 75 percent of the time because she doesn’t want to show favoritism. The only thing that differs is the color or style. So if we saw two similarly sized packages I’d open one and find a green sweater. That let Nate know his package was a blue sweater. Needless to say we have the timing of our present opening down pat.

Once we’re done in the living room, we go through our stockings out in the family room. And this, my faithful readers, is where things got interesting.

My mom is the designated stocking stuffer in our family, and certain things are a given every year. Socks, underwear, deodorant, toothpaste, and candy are all staples. But after that, mom tends to get creative. She usually takes whatever we’re into at that given time, and gives us gifts that reflect those interests.

When I was little, it was baseball cards. As I became an awkward teenager entering puberty, she kept me clad in deodorant and shaving cream. But now that I was 17 with a steady girlfriend and about to head off to college, I wondered what she had in store.

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As I was digging through the usual suspects, I noticed something odd. It was a fairly big, six inches by six inches or so, square package. And it was wrapped. This was curious because nothing else in the stockings was ever wrapped.

I held it up to my brother, thinking he probably got something similar. But he met my gaze with bewilderment. Even my dad looked perplexed.

“What is this?” I asked.

“Only one way to find out,” said my mom.

I was pretty excited. Maybe it was something for college. After all, I was practically a grownup now. It must be something huge and important or else she wouldn’t have saved it for last in my stocking. My fingers moved with anticipatory glee as they worked to undo the wrapping paper.

Finally I tore open the package. I was stunned. Shocked, actually. To the point where I couldn’t talk, move or even breathe. My mind raced furiously with possible explanations for the horror I was currently witnessing. Because there in my hand, staring me right in the face, was this:

Yup. That’s right. My own mother had wrapped a box of condoms and put it in my Christmas stocking. A 36-pack economy box of condoms, to be exact.

I was frozen in fear. I looked at my then 15-year-old brother, who had also grasped the horror of the situation and looked like he wanted to jump out the nearest window as much as I did. My only thought and my last hope, was that this had been some crazy mix-up. My mom had obviously given me the wrong package. Either that or Santa has a really fucked up sense of humor.

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“I … I think there’s been a mistake,” I managed to stammer.

“Merry Christmas, sweetie. Those should last you, what, a week?” my mom chirped cheerfully.

That was it. I had to leave the room. After all, I had just started having sex that summer and buying condoms was still a traumatic experience for me. But as humiliating and frightening as those clandestine trips into the local drugstore were, I would’ve gladly traded that in exchange for the hell that is receiving 36 rubbers from your own mom.

Don’t get me wrong, they definitely qualified as the most useful and practical gift I got that Christmas. But when I’m preparing to go at it with my ho-ho-ho, I’d rather not be reminded of my mother’s Christmas gift.

To this day I eye my stocking suspiciously every Christmas morning and I trust no one!

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About Aaron Gouveia

Aaron is husband to a woman far too beautiful to have married him, and father of two sons far too perfect to be his. After nearly a decade as a Boston-area journalist, he decided to actually get paid and became a content manager. When he's not griping about his beloved Boston sports teams, he's detailing life as a dad at The Daddy Files. You can follow him on Twitter (@DaddyFiles) and Facebook.

Comments

  1. My dad once announced to my entire extended family…at a wedding…that he loved me, but I wasn’t allowed to bring any more strippers to family functions. I didn’t quite know what to say, but a number of years later my family still reminds me of this wonderful request. Thanks dad!

  2. Nothing so traumatic here – but my mother does the exact same thing re: favoritism and Christmas. My sister and I are three years apart and often got the exact same gifts, but in different colours.

  3. I am making a note. I want my daughter to have a story like this to blog about in 15 years. Classic.

  4. At times, I think parents struggle with how to talk to their kids about sex and growing up. I definitely had a similar experience with my dad handing me a box of condoms as he drove me to college as a freshman. And while it’s definitely awkward and horrible, sometimes having that box of condoms helps facilitate a conversation most parents would otherwise never have. Good story.

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