The Most Transphobic Thing That Ever Happened…


Oliver Lee Bateman examines one of the most transphobic moments in television history.

Stop me if you’ve heard this one:  a guy is either getting intimate or is about to get intimate with a person he assumes to be a cisgender woman.  At some point in the proceedings, the other person is revealed to have male sex organs.  The guy, who was mere seconds away from absolute bliss, proceeds to go apeshit, leaping around the room, shrieking like a banshee, and otherwise reaffirming his 100% red-blooded heteronormative credentials.  Dramatic irony at its finest, as everyone from Some Like It Hot‘s Billy Wilder to It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia‘s Rob McElhenney has discovered.

Although one can’t ban such depictions of the venerable “tranny trick” any more than one can totally efface blackface (or whiteface, in the recent case of Nick Cannon) from the historical record, evolving cultural norms have transformed what had once been reliable comedic fodder from decades past into deserving candidates for present-day trigger warnings.  Witness, for example, this scene from WWE performer/world-class strongman Mark Henry‘s late-90s run as “Sexual Chocolate.  Or don’t witness it, since it is both trigger warning-worthy and more than a bit cringe-inducing.

Mark Henry falls victim to one of the oldest tricks in the book. 

Autres temps, autres mœurs, indeed!  Were the late 1990s really such a cultural wasteland, and were we teenage males such barbarians, that something so undeniably vulgar slipped through the cracks without public condemnation?  Mind you, Henry’s received shoddy treatment from the WWE since the beginning of his wrestling career, but this particular incident stands out even among the corpse-rapings, home invasions, and bra-and-panty mud matches that characterized the “Attitude Era.”

To recap the bit, for those of you who lack the stomach to watch:

  1. Mark Henry, who is infatuated with the pro wrestler Chyna, is left to his own devices with one of Chyna’s female friends.
  2. Henry, who is playing a sex addict (“Sexual Chocolate”), is seduced by this woman, and allows her to perform oral sex on him.
  3. While attempting to reach under the woman’s skirt, Henry receives what to him is an unwelcome surprise.  He reacts in the exaggerated manner of most ham actors, then takes things to the next level when he runs into a nearby bathroom and vomits into the commode.
  4. Mark Henry’s mother and thousands of other fans, some not even in their teens, are watching this sketch as it plays out.
  5. Chyna, who is herself working a “confounding gender expectations” gimmick as a mannish woman who wrestles men, comes back on camera to complete the emasculation of Mark Henry.  Her friend is  revealed as complicit in this angle, so eager was she to “tear off a piece” of the massive Henry.

So I’m left to write: WTF?  There was no blogosphere in this Web 1.0 era, and thus no group of concerned netizens available to register their disdain at this deplorable sequence.  But it bears reexamination now, because it’s beyond grotesque and indicative of everything that remains flawed and fractured about our understanding of gender as distinct from the biological notion of sex.

The”victim,” of course, is meant to be Henry.  He’s the butt of the joke–a joke so foul that he’s left retching up his guts in the toilet despite the fact that he undoubtedly enjoyed what had just transpired prior to learning the “awful truth” about his paramour.  But what of the woman who performs oral sex on him?  Is she also a victim? A manipulator?  Is manipulation the only way that a “real man” such as Mark Henry would consent to be touched by an individual he’d likely demean with a pejorative term such as “she-male” or “female impersonator?”

 Is manipulation the only way that a “real man” such as Mark Henry would consent to be touched by an individual he’d likely demean with a pejorative term such as “she-male” or “female impersonator?”

Issues of race, masculinity, power, and privilege abound in that clip, but it can’t be redeemed as satire or written off as farce.  For all his accomplishments as a businessman and promoter, WWE chairman Vince McMahon was a tone-deaf humorist at best.  Here the trope he chooses to invoke is already so fraught that he can’t fail to make a complete hash of it.

Is this little takedown enough to bury such a hackneyed and half-baked approach to drawing cheap laughter?  Likely no, if its recurrence on crude sitcoms such as It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia is any indication.  Many, including McMahon and Sunny‘s creator Rob McElhenney, would likely contend that nothing is sacred, that everything is fair game as far as comedy is concerned.  And I suppose they’d be partially right, because anything can conceivably amuse the multitudes, but they’d also be completely wrong, because issues of human worth and worthlessness are no laughing matter.

Photo–Flickr/Charles Hutchins

About Oliver Lee Bateman

Good Men Project contributing editor Oliver Lee Bateman is a columnist for Al-Jazeera America and Made Man Magazine. His writing has been featured in Salon, The Atlantic, Johnny America, Stymie: A Journal of Sport and Literature, the U.S. Intellectual History Blog, STIR Journal,, and NAP Magazine. He is also one of the founders of the Moustache Club of America and Penny & Farthing, two blogzines specializing in flash fiction and creative nonfiction that he co-curates with web developer Erik Hinton, medical consultant Nathan Zimmerman, and freelance writers Christie Chapman and J. R. Powell. Oliver is a lawyer as well as an assistant professor at the University of Texas at Arlington. Follow him on Twitter @MoustacheClubUS or on Google+.


  1. Stephan says:

    It’s disgusting! And I am also surprised how redcently these kind of trans jokes were everywhere in my youth (I am just 25). There ois just one thing you wrote I think one has to be careful with.
    “Is manipulation the only way that a “real man” such as Mark Henry would consent to be touched by an individual he’d likely demean with a pejorative term such as “she-male” or “female impersonator?”
    I mean there are a lot of reasons for trans to disclose there status, which are all udnerstandable, however I think it is difficult to say if you don’t get Sex with person you want to, you can manipulate them.

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