The host of Narcissist Support was flooded with requests to talk about what men experience with a narcissistic female partner. Here goes.
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Society has this view of what abuse looks like. And the view is that it’s a man, a big man—a big man—a big man who is being physically abusive to a smaller woman. And it only seems to count—or register–as abuse if that woman is getting punched in the face and she has a very visible black eye. So anything outside of that is not considered abuse by a large majority of people …
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Hi Thomas I have nothing against this woman and her support group but I do not understand why she talks about men and women she means can be diagnosed as narcisstic personality disorder as ” the narcissist ” ? It is confusing. A person can have narcissitic traits or a full blown personality disorder. As far as I know many or most persons diagnosed with personality disorders has a mix of several different personality disorders. I do not think it is wise in support groups to call any person ” the narcissist ” when you actually mean a person with… Read more »
Also, the speaker mentions that she has published other works including other videos on similar topics. How can I locate her work?
She is a psyciatric nurse, that post her videos on Youtube.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUVh2cwep3jCYwDjE689Wg/videos
thank you for posting, this article is highly important in order to advance discussion on the complexities of intimate partner abuse. It also confronts the erroneous narrative that men cannot be victimized within the context of a romantic relationship.
Nicely done.