Men, frequently advised to clamp down on their emotions and resist their instincts “to feel,” experience deep wounds. Can a stranger’s hands really heal buried pain?
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Invitees entered insecure, aware of perceived emotional shortcomings, that their histories had brought them to this place: the snuggle party. Directed to maintain a “snuggle level” by the snuggle coordinator (yes, there really is such a role!), the energy remained playful as foreign fingers massaged scalps, rubbed shoulder and nestled into each other’s personal space. Snugglers described it as a “calming touch” and confessed that not knowing the owner of the hand, foot, or arm was comforting, as if it brought them in touch with the rest of the universe.
Photo: YouTube/Seeker Stories
Video: YouTube/Seeker Stories
I think it’s great. As the percentage of people in relationships seems to be on the decline, there aren’t many other safe outlets for touching. Especially for MEN. This is why many men reach out in a sexual manner, and consider massage parlors, prostitutes, and even other men. They might be genuinely craving intimacy and non-sexual touch, but we don’t have a way for that to happen. There is a stigma that men only want sex, and because of that many men would never admit that they desire something more substantial and sustainable. And what does our society do to… Read more »
Uh, no thanks! Seriously, this reminds me of that old Burt Renoylds movie ‘Semi-Tough’.