The excruciating pain of being rejected makes this man want to ‘just rot away’. Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt has a dare…
Question: I’ve just stopped caring. I used to take such good care of myself but after this last breakup – I just stopped giving a damn. What’s the point? If women are just going to use me then screw it. I’d rather just rot away.
Answer: You sound feisty my friend. She really did something that hurt, huh? So much so that you can’t find that part of you that wants to even try?
I get it.
Been there.
My clients have been there.
I’d say every human has been there… and if they haven’t, they will.
Why? Because it’s the core fundamental question we all get to at some point… certainly if we’re up to a life of meaning, expansion, purpose and joy… we’ll get to the question, What’s the point?
The point for decades is often to be good enough, be liked, be approved of, be the winner, be a success.
When one succeeds and she still leaves, or when one tries and fails over and over again… when we see how we’re NOT in control and that even if we think we’re in control, we could LOSE control… then we come to a cross roads.
If I can’t ever be in control, if I can never figure it all out, then What’s the F’ing Point!?
Great question 😉
What if the point was to simply experience being alive, from pain to pleasure?
What if the point was to love yourself when you’re sad as much as when you’re successful?
What if there is a totally different way of interacting with life that was impermeable to rejection?
And what if this last lady who dumped you (?) was the perfect gift from the Universe for you to finally come home to the safety, security, approval and oneness found within you, with Source, 24/7, never able to be taken away by anyone or any circumstance?
And what if this was actually the beginning of true Choice and true Freedom ? (aka being a Noble Badass)
And what if you found a guide on this journey who lived in this hell you’re in before she found Freedom (me 😉 and now guides great men (and women) HOME. How does it get even more delicious than that?
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Come home to your magnificence by either enjoying my complementary www.GetHerToSayYes.com report or by contacting [email protected] Subj: GMP sent me (women just use me) and let’s book a Strategy Session to see if you’re a fit for my coaching program for men and women who are ready for a hot healthy long term intimate partnership they deserve.
Set the timer on your pity party. Make it a really good last pity party. Then connect with me and let’s shift this FOR GOOD my friend. GREAT love and endless blessings, Allana xox
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This is what the expectation of gentlemanly behaviour leads to if left unchecked. Your dignity is worth more than the attention of any woman. Like Jules, I learnt the hard way too. I take no shit from my girlfriend and tell her when she’s acting out of order.
Several situations have led to this, not least of all feminism’s determination to see women as victims and an unwillingness on behalf of some women to give up their gender privilege in the game of dating and relationships.
“This is what the expectation of gentlemanly behavior leads to if left unchecked. Your dignity is worth more than the attention of any woman.” There is the expansion of masculinity and their is the wimperfecation of the man. This fellow has not fully attained his manhood, which is why I’m glad that men such as yourself, Jules, and others are participating in discussions all across the internet. If no one else will, then I guess its up to men like us to teach, and if the internet is the only place in which we can create some modicum of male… Read more »
“I take no shit from my girlfriend and tell her when she’s acting out of order.”
Does she do the same in regards to you?
Unlike some women on here she doesn’t play damsel in distress. She doesn’t think she should be wrapped in cotton wool and protected from any criticism purely because of the genital she was born with. She doesn’t like being infantilised.
It amuses me that there are so many women who object to being treated like an adults.
Also, I notice you fail to address the men here who had their good nature taken advantage of by women and instead choose to pick a fight with me who says he made that mistake before and won’t be making it again?
Question: So…why DOES the moron keep hitting himself with a sledge hammer, anyway? Answer: Because it feels SO GOOD when he stops. Your mission, should you choose to accept is to find out what that means for you…in your life. Here’s a clue: Worshipping the Golden Calf, the Golden Clit, or the Golden cock is ALWAYS a bad idea. These all make GREAT DESSERT, but TERRIBLE main courses. You make ANY human being your main course and you are gonna be fucked…and not in a good way. The old guy goes to the doctor, twists himself up into an ungodly… Read more »
Well, I’m glad someone said it, Jules.
You give your power away, you have no one to blame but yourself.
Until he becomes his own man, until he ceases judging himself by female approval, acceptance, or rejection, he will continue to tail spin, never able to properly love, or give love while maintaining his sense of self.
Be your own man. Decide what is right for you. Choose wisely.
Get a big dose of apathy and slather it in difference, put in the MGTOW Oven and bake that dish.
Get to the gym, focus on work, build your money; and quit caring about women. And the moment you can say you no longer give a f*ck, life changes. Stay single, stay strong. Remember, you are nothing more than a fish riding a bicycle to them, why ever would you WANT to be with someone like that?
There is no point!
But you giving up on taking care of yourself, will hurt noone but yourself.
Screw THEM. Let your Life be about YOU!
They don’t just use you. You allow them to use you. You can avoid all of this by taking control of yourself including your thoughts,your actions, etc. The problem is that so many men like yourself (and myself of old) have surrendered yourself to women (btw, women do the same with respect to men). Yes, it’s OK to be vulnerable. But, being vulnerable does not mean you must surrender. Set very clear boundaries on what you will tolerate. This where it always start. I make it very clear what I expect and what I will not tolerate. I also make… Read more »
Good advice, Jules! No one can take advantage of you without your permission. Many people feel so needy for a relationship that they give up all their power. Men and women both do this. I just read an advice column on another site where a woman asked if she should stay with her boyfriend who told her that she was only an “8.5” out of 10 and the sex wasn’t so hot, but he was willing to settle. She was bothered by his comments but he was nice to her kid, so she wondered if that was good enough. That’s… Read more »