NY Times – Why Fathers Really Matter


Well, we all know fathers matter.

But Judith Shulevitz, science editor for The New Republic, offers a fascinating op-ed in the NYT Sunday Review about the less expected ways in which dads matter in the health of their offspring.

It isn’t just that a healthy dad creates a healthy home and models healthy behavior to his children. It goes much deeper than that, all the way to genetics. Not just whether a father passes on a gene for heart disease or certain types of cancer, but, as Shulevitz writes, “Whether a man’s genes are good or bad (and whatever ‘good’ and ‘bad’ mean in this context), his children’s bodies and minds will reflect lifestyle choices he has made over the years, even if he made those choices long before he ever imagined himself strapping on a Baby Bjorn.”

Yes, his lifestyle choices.

The article cites many studies—from the isolated Swedish island of Overkalix pre-20th Century, to rats who were exposed to bully rats every day before they mated, to the age of fathers at conception—and presents a compelling argument that it’s not just the presence of fathers in children’s lives that affects their outcomes, but also about the lifestyle choices of the fathers prior to conception that make a difference.

Read the full article here.

What do you think of Shulevitz’s theories? How about the science of epi-genetics?

Were you an older father? Would these studies change the way you behave or the choices you make, were you to decide to conceive a child?

 

Image of father and mother to-be courtesy of Shutterstock

About Joanna Schroeder

Joanna Schroeder is the type of working mom who opens her car door and junk spills out all over the ground. Her work includes being the “She” in She Said He Said, a sex and dating advice blog, and serving as Senior Editor of The Good Men Project. Joanna loves playing with her sons, skateboarding with her husband, and hanging out with friends. Her dream is to someday finish and sell her almost-done novel. Follow her shenanigans on Twitter.

Comments

  1. John Miller says:

    Thank you for sharing this link, I would have missed it otherwise! It’s a really interesting (and scary) the way we affect our children with our choices. Both prior to and after we actually have them in our lives.

  2. Not buying it says:

    Hmm, that’s definitely different way of looking at fathers! !

    I thought the protocol nowadays is provided sustained financial support to the mother, No matter what under the threat of losing everything & hopefully if she is decent enough & you are lucky she will let you see them or have any kind relationship with them , regardless if you are good for them or not if you unlucky & she’s bitter because you walk out on her !! You will pay dearly at court just to see them, that’s how important are dads in the legal system.

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