Porn Stars – Always Coming And Going

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About Jillian Godsil

Jillian Godsil is a writer located south of Dublin. She is a freelance journalist and is writing four books this year. She shares her literary agent with the President of Ireland, Michael D Higgins. Jillian is somewhat famous for being caught in the property bubble in Ireland where plummeting house prices and divorce left her with a large mansion and no means to afford it. She became known as the ‘Irish Divorcee who sold her house on Youtube’. She lives with her two teenage girls, dog, cat and four horses in a tiny village. www.jilliangodsil.com

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  1. So, first Micheal Fassbender and now James Deen. It seems you have a thing for “Well Endowed” men. I think fellow writer Emily Moss already “has dibs” on this one though. LOL!

  2. he will be coming for sure. let’s hope he doesn’t infect anyone.

  3. “Mr Deen’s blog, Where Panties Are Not Allowed, is surprisingly an homage to women and their orifices. He adores women. Every last hole of them and he is kind to his fellow hommes too. ”

    When women and “orifices” and “holes” are used in the same sentence, the last thing I think of is “respect”. Seriously, what is wrong with people today. Women burned their bras so that women today could get off on being referred to by just their “holes”. The world is going to crap.

    • Artemis says:

      “When women and “orifices” and “holes” are used in the same sentence, the last thing I think of is “respect”. ”

      I understand why you are upset here, but I have actually read his blog and he is very respectful. Mind you, he is having sex with these women, so he is going to become rather intimate with their “orifices” and “holes.” He generally talks about the porn shoots he does and with whom, and he talks about the women and the other work they have done. So I don’t really think it is so strange for him to comment on the tightness of a woman’s vagina if he is having sex with her.

      On an unrelated note, I like how he is doing porn shoots all the time, but in every post he is always SO EXCITED and flattered to get to have sex with whoever he is shooting with that day.

      • On an unrelated note, I like how he is doing porn shoots all the time, but in every post he is always SO EXCITED and flattered to get to have sex with whoever he is shooting with that day.

        I’m curious about this sentiment, and the extent to which it’s shared (or is it?) by many women. I honestly don’t know his work, and the only reason I’ve heard of him is he’s the subject of one of GMP’s all time most popular articles.

        I don’t have a problem with the comment, but what’s curious about it to me is that it seems at odds with what I perceive as the usual reaction to a promiscuous man. That is, if some “player” were to describe himself as being so excited and flattered every time he gets to have sex with “whoever”, I get this feeling the general reaction wouldn’t be respect, but more like disbelief, like “Oh sure, as if it’s possible to really respect women if you bone everything that moves.” In other words, it’s seems to me as though because he’s a porn star, he’s getting a pass that regular guys don’t get. Is that the case?

        It sounds like he’s genuine, btw, and I think a non-porn employed promiscuous man could feel the same way, so I’m just wondering whether his fame somehow mitigates what would otherwise trigger disgust in a lot of people. Why does a guy who’s getting paid to be promiscuous seem more capable of respect than one who’s promiscuous for free? (Or does he?)

        • Artemis says:

          Wow big questions, did not expect that.

          I think it’s cool that he is always so excited because he’s not just excited to have sex with a random woman, he is excited to have sex with this woman whose work he knows and thinks is cool. Which is significant partly because he is a porn star. I would expect the excitement to wear off eventually if he is having sex with a new porn star every day, but it doesn’t seem like it has.

          Also, I think part of it is how he approaches shooting scenes with the women, which I think would also be applicable to non-porn star guys. I don’t actually know any “promiscuous” guys, so I can’t speak for their attitudes or the respect I would have or not have for them. But in his blog, James Deen is excited to have sex with this particular woman because of this reason, not that he is excited to have sex.

          “In other words, it’s seems to me as though because he’s a porn star, he’s getting a pass that regular guys don’t get. Is that the case?”
          Well, the other guys don’t have a fanbase. :) I’m kidding. I think there is an idea that normal “promiscuous” guys don’t really care about who they are having sex with, they just want to have sex. Like they’re selfish and not really interested in the person they’re having sex with. I don’t know, maybe it’s a stereotype. But in contrast James Deen is not excited to have sex, having sex is every day for him, but he is excited to work with this particular person.

          I don’t know. I have a porncrush on Jame Deen so I am incredibly biased here. And I also have little experience with normal guys who have sex with many women, so I don’t have much to say on them. I would say that what sets him apart from the average “player” is his enthusiasm for the particular women, not for the sex.

          Also, he is really good at the sex. That probably helps things.

  4. Artemis says:

    I may have a little crush on James Deen. Also, his increasing fame means his face is actually visible during his porn shoots. Win-win!

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