Would You Let Your 9 Year-Old Son Go to College?

You can’t help but be crazy about 9 year-old Tanishq Abraham… Yeah, he’s super smart, but he still talks almost exactly like my own elementary-aged son. He’s not freakishly grown-up, just a charming little guy.

But in thinking about a 9 year-old being in college one can’t help but worry about his social development. Is it worth it to allow a child to progress with his intellect, or should he be kept with his peers for social reasons? Can you achieve both?

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Joanna Schroeder is the type of working mom who opens her car door and junk spills out all over the ground. Her work includes being the “She” in She Said He Said, a sex and dating advice blog, and serving as Senior Editor of The Good Men Project. Joanna loves playing with her sons, skateboarding with her husband, and hanging out with friends. Her dream is to someday finish her almost-done novel and get some sleep. Follow her shenanigans on Twitter.

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  1. I attended a specialized school for students on an accelerated curriculum for grades 7-12…before that, I felt stymied by the regular public school system that was woefully inadequate and quite boring….I think they have special accelerated programs for kids on many college campuses (so that they can get extra intellectual stimulation)….My friend’s kid is a genius…she kept him in a private school during elementary and had a special tutor to spend extra time after school on Greek Mythology or Roman History, or whatever…Now he goes to HS (in a special gifted kids’ program at the local community college)….I think it was really important for him to develop close relationships with his peers (many of them are quite advanced, too)….he was going through a lot of psychological bumps in the road due to his parents’ divorce and subsequent custody and visitation battle (I think it really helped that he had a lot of friends and activity partners his own age to blow off steam with and to hang with)…

  2. I don’t think he should be kept back with his peers because that will stunt his intellectual development and quite possibly bore him. I know one boy who was kept back all his life because his mother didn’t want him to progress, and he eventually dropped out of high school because it was far too easy for him. Now he’s in the military in the airforce doing things he’s always wanted to do but never could because the public school system just didn’t push him. There are a myriad of ways this boy can be with his peers that doesn’t involve school, like play dates, sports, organizations, like 4-H, and so many other things. School is not the only way kids can make friends.

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