My Unemployment

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About Bo Guthrie

I was born in Minnesota. I moved a lot and ended up in Alabama. Once there, I realized that I didn't want a regular job, so I decided that I would do comedy. I'm now in Atlanta figuring out how to get famous. I doubt it will work, but I'm enjoying the process thoroughly.

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  1. Applying for jobs after 16 years out of work, nearby car wash never acknowledged my application. Same went for Starbucks and Whole Foods. I did have 1st & 2nd interviews on same day for new Target that was opening up in town a couple of years ago… after spending two hours in interview process all I got in reply was an email pretty much saying, “Not what we are looking for at this time.” *And I used to spend thousands of dollars there every year!

    Husband is almost two years out of work.; he was once vice president of customer service department. in homebuilding industry – seems these jobs are now obsolete. Now that’s discouraging.

    Fingers crossed for better luck for you.

    • I cannot imagine doing this with a family. I’m very lucky to be single with low expenses. My heart goes out to you.

  2. Wow. This is so spot on. I thought it was just me checking out those cars. I use excuses like “I don’t need a car” or “I’m happier without that”, but as I get older, I find I have more and more people to whom to answer for my choice in traveling lifestyle. The rejection is the hardest, but unlike you, I don’t really have hope I’ll land back on my feet.

    • “I find I have more and more people to whom to answer for my choice in traveling lifestyle.” I feel that, too. But., I wonder if that’s a misconception stemming from insecurity rather than a reality.

  3. PsyConomics says:

    I was unemployed for a year (right out of college too, class of 09, worst the recession had to offer to date if I recall correctly) before deciding to go back to school. The original plan was to get a bit of math and jump into actuarial exams. 2 years of part-time (to save on tuition/loans) later I got admitted to a stats masters program. College just doesn’t seem worth it anymore without either connections in an industry or graduate work.

    For me the worst part wasn’t the boredom, I can fix that with games/internet/job applications. The worst part for me was the sheer feeling of being useless, having no place to fit into society. Like a metaphysical version of one of those extra pegs you get when you buy Ikea furniture. Not only no place to be but no use, no easy way to find a use, and a terrifying feeling (that to this day occasionally keeps me up at night) that I will never have a use.

    • The fear of unfulfilled potential and that ache to contribute are feelings I am very familiar with. I wish I was able to offer a brighter and more optimistic perspective, but I think sometimes you have to accept the difficulty of a situation and work through it. It sounds as if you’ve got something happening with that masters program. I would imagine that statisticians are very employable.

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