Men Suffer From More Work-Life Conflict Than Women?

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  1. I support the idea behind what you’re proposing, but my pessimistic practical side says many of these concessions for people with families cost a LOT to provide, and without federal subsidies or a federal mandate, I don’t see many companies being willing to devote so much funding to things like on-site childcare and long-term paid parental leave, especially not small businesses like the one I work at. It cuts into profits and affords little benefit to the company itself.

    Besides, in my experience (which is limited – I’ve only worked for a handful of different employers), parents already get preferential treatment when the kids are involved. At my last job, the only person who had a regular work-from-home privilege was a married father to young children. The rest of us could only work off-site in an emergency – when I was part-time, I lost an entire shift’s worth of hours because the driveway was so iced over I couldn’t even safely leave the house. My job was website editing and maintenance, something that can be done from virtually anywhere with an Internet connection. It pissed me off royally. If parents are allowed concessions like flex time and working offsite, non-parent employees should be afforded the same; otherwise, it smacks of discrimination against the childless/childfree.

    • Go on strike.

      The maximum working week in France is 35 hours (with a few jobs as exceptions.) The French demand a similar annual wage and standard of living to Americans. If French people don’t get nearly double an American’s hourly wage, then the French are out the door and on the picket lines. Companies have to pay, because they need workers.

    • “…but my pessimistic practical side says many of these concessions for people with families cost a LOT to provide, and without federal subsidies or a federal mandate, I don’t see many companies being willing to devote so much funding to things like on-site childcare and long-term paid parental leave,…”

      Yes, this all of this, and another big disincentive is the competitive disadvantage this imposes on those who offer it it first, so no one fges first. It has to be everyone or no one, and that requires enforceable regulations.


      Besides, in my experience (which is limited – I’ve only worked for a handful of different employers), parents already get preferential treatment when the kids are involved. ”

      This is a real problem, and glib dismissals “Oh, we’re raising the generation that will empty your bedpans…” do not help at all.

  2. I won’t come down on the side of systemic benefits for traditional-family-making. I don’t support sexual discrimination in either direction, but, as a long-term single and long-term childless person, I am acutely aware that the choice and opportunity to build a family are often incentivized in many workplaces (even if they are simultaneously disincentivized in others). I’d be happier with a general expansion of business’ recognition of the fact that ALL their employees have personal lives and external priorities.

  3. Men not only suffer from the conflict at workplace but they are also victims of biased views of society which thinks that the woman are angels while men are the beast. http://www.lifenstory.com/frmViewStory.aspx?C1=190
    These wrong tags will stick to men unless they start questioning their validity, at least I have started to voice my disagreement over these biased view which the society and media has about men – http://www.lifenstory.com/frmViewStory.aspx?C1=183

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