What My Partner Got Because I Wasn’t a Virgin

And because I wasn’t a virgin – in fact, very far from it – when I met my now partner and the father of my one year old son, I am able to give my partner more of me.

What People Get Wrong About Abstinence

Russel Wilson may be abstaining because of a message from God. But that choice has other benefits.

Nick Kyrgios Boldly Challenging The ‘No Sex Before Sport’ Myth

Following tennis young gun Nick Kyrgios’ adamant rejection of a pre-game ban on sex, David Packman continues a conversation that’s been going on since the days of Plato.

#whatyounevertaught: 5 Ways to Make Sex Ed Better for Boys

Why should boys be left to learn the hard way about real issues regarding sex and relationships?

Do Boys Deserve Credit for the Declining Teen Birth Rate?

The reason that teen pregnancy rates have plunged in the last few years is because boys are behaving more responsibly.

Pregnant Boys: Chicago’s Teen Pregnancy Campaign Sparks Conversation

Chicago is shocking the world with its 2013 teen pregnancy prevention campaign, which features pregnant teenage boys.

Illinois Passes Bill for Comprehensive Sex-Ed in Public Schools

“In fantasy land, we teach our kids abstinence—and they listen.”

What Marriage Isn’t

Conversations about marriage continue to show that we fabricate romantic myths that set us up for disappointment.

My Uncle Didn’t Get AIDS Because He Was Gay

Kathryn DeHoyos shares the most important thing she ever learned about sex.

Fox News: Be Abstinent Until Marriage, Mimbos.

Steven Crowder apparently waited until he got married to have sex, and would like to tell us all about it. In general, I am happy for Mr. Crowder. He waited until he got married to have sex and had a very enjoyable loss of his virginity. I’m glad! I think everyone should have the right […]

Off The Grid

Robert Levithan travels to Turkey and unplugs from everything. He strives to live in the moment, until he has to return to his world of emails, Skype calls, and constant communication.

The Naked Truth About Saving Sex for Marriage (Part 2 of 4)

There’s a myth that sex is forever uncomplicated for men. The wedding night is an excellent example of how this isn’t true.

His Right to Choose

When Jess Prominski asked her new partner his views on abortion in the event of unplanned pregnancy, she was surprised by his answer.

On Chastity Movements and Men

Christian abstinence movements are really fucking weird about masculinity. (My qualifications for writing this post, as an atheist skeptic who has had quite a lot of sex: I went to Catholic abstinence-only education in high school, I took a class on the abstinence-only movement, and I’ve read a fuckload about it in my free time […]

Tennesee’s New Sex-Ed, Or Lack Thereof

HeatherN hopes the new Tennessee law isn’t as disastrous as research suggests it may be.

Why I Decided to Stop Drinking (And Why It’s Not a Judgement on Anyone Who Does)

Carlo Alcos picked a hell of a day to quit drinking. Here’s what he learned along the way.