Anticipation of the Knife

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Masculinity is often tied to pain management. Here, Michael Walsh ponders whether one kind of pain can be used to manage another.

How Silence Led To 1400 Children Being Sexually Abused

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The authorities and staff entrusted to protect vulnerable people were too scared to do so. Andrew Lawes wants to help you speak out against abuse

The Greatest Gift She Ever Gave Me

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Paul Cooper’s wife gave him the ability to trust women again. Here’s how.

The Dangers of Texting … With an Emotionally Abusive Partner

The Dangers of Texting by Mariah Wisner

This heartbreaking text exchange with an emotionally abusive partner will feel all too familiar to anyone in a relationship characterized by domination and control.

The Only 8 Times It’s Excusable to Leave Someone You Love

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Paul Hudson thinks you shouldn’t walk out on love, unless it’s one of the reasons you’re not happy.

Enticement—the Feel-Good Stuff—Is Part of Abuse

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Kristin Carmichael explains how apologies, gifts, promises, and better behavior are not the end of abuse but part of the cycle that keeps victims trapped.

As a White Man, I Just Want to Say I Am Truly Sorry For Your Loss

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James Maynard believes we need to be addressing the insidious violence that exists within our own community.

Reusing Pain

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Author and survivor Cecil Murphey is reusing pain to help others.

A Short Film on Abuse and Violence Against Men

A Short Film by Daniel Wilkinson

Lee and Carla are a husband and wife couple affected by abuse and domestic violence, but Lee is the victim.

Let’s End Relationship Entitlement Now

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Thomas Fiffer believes the big factor in domestic violence is ‘relationship entitlement,’ and he’s calling it out to stop the hurt.

As We Start our Family Tree

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Elisabeth Corey shares about how her children will not know holidays that are filled with extended family.

Why We Need To Talk About Christy Mack And Victim-Blaming

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James Michael Sama asks men to stand up against victim-blaming, after the recent attack of Christy Mack.

Shame: Is GMP Part of the Problem?

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This is not a rhetorical question.

3 Things I Wish Someone Said to Me After Trauma

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Sarafina Bianco has advanced degrees in DV and PTSD. Here’s her crash course on what people should and shouldn’t say to survivors of trauma.

What Do Circumcision And Strip Mining Have In Common?

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Forcefully removing that which we have no right to remove.

Send a Message of Hope to Domestic Violence Survivors

Send a Message by Howard Lake

In the time it takes you to read this tagline, 4 people will be abused. One of them might be someone you know.