Different Racisms: On Jeremy Lin and Singular Models

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Matthew Salesses wonders how he can explain to his daughter that no matter what talents she grows up to possess, much of the world will see her in only one way.

Hey Justice Scalia, Hitler Was Raised By Heterosexuals

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In the DOMA and Prop 8 hearings, Justice Scalia has questioned whether its safe for children to be raised by same-sex parents; he should be careful what he wishes for.

American Academy of Pediatrics Comes Out in Supprt of Same-Sex Marriage

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The AAP stresses that coming from a stable loving environment influences who children become much more than their parents sexual orientation does.

12-Year-Old With Two Dads Writes Moving Letter to Justice Roberts

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Daniel Martinez-Leffew, “articulately spells how his family will be affected if Prop 8 is allowed to stand.”

Our Journey to Adoption as a Gay Couple

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Matthew and Trey recount the hurdles and setbacks they’ve encountered on the road to being approved as adoptive parents.

I Will Be Alone But Not Alone

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In this installment of “Love, Recorded,” Matt must deal with his old fears as he prepares for three months without his family.

Unmarried and Unequal

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Why The Alternatives to Marriage Project fights for unmarried equality.

What Should We Be Thankful For?

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How do we remember who we are in this modern world? In this installment of “Love, Recorded,” Black Friday strikes, adoption rears its lonesome head, and yet Matt takes a moment in all the noise to give thanks.

“People tend to assume men do not yearn, do not carry that boundless love that is all powerful.”

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This is a comment by jemima101 on the post “A Single Man’s Adoption Story”.

How the Rules of Racism Are Different For Asian Americans

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Matthew Salesses reflects upon the moment he realized he was not white, and explores the ways in which racism against Asians Americans is nearly invisible in our culture.

A Death and a Birth

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Rolf Gates tells the story of his sister’s death and daughter’s birth, and how they helped him become a better man.

What I Would Like to Tell Adoptive Parents (About Answers): A Letter from an Adoptee

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Matthew Salesses explains that adoptees most likely won’t find all the answers they’re looking for, and that needs to be okay.

It’s Her Choice

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In Richard Essery’s opinion, abortion is an area best left to those unexpectedly expecting.

Taking a Stand: Why I Support a Woman’s Right to Choose

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Every woman should have the right to control what happens with her own body.

His Right to Choose

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When Jess Prominski asked her new partner his views on abortion in the event of unplanned pregnancy, she was surprised by his answer.

6 Reasons to Consider Surrogacy

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Jerry Mahoney explains what makes surrogacy a great choice for gay couples.