From Hurt To Healing – Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

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Brave stories from three men who were assaulted and abused, physically, verbally, and sexually. This will change what you think about sexual assault and abuse.

The H.E.R.O. Corps

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We throw the word hero around a little too casually these days. Here are some men who earn the title.

Talking and Not Talking: Sexual Abuse and the Inability to Ask Questions

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My earliest memory is of wanting a grappling hook, so that I could climb walls like Batman. My boyfriend’s earliest memory is of being sexually abused.

No Longer a Victim

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Donald D’Haene was on ‘The Oprah Winfrey Show’—twice—as a survivor of sexual abuse, not a victim.



One man’s pleasureland is another man’s nightmare.

How Can You Be Spiritual and Sexual?


Even spiritual people receive mixed messages that complicate becoming sexually mindful.

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How does a man feel after sex? That depends upon the man and his history.

Withdrawing from the Sandusky and Lynn Trials

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After prolonged exposure to the Sandusky and Lynn trials, it’s natural for a survivor to crave the safety of his own shell.

Hidden Ashes: A Male Survivor’s Fear of Men

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Men who are afraid of other men: you are not alone.

The Sandusky Trial: Reflections From Penn State


An adult survivor of abuse reports from the Sandusky trial.