Against the Current, With the Stream

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When it comes to getting high, John Paschal chooses to stand alone.

Thunderstruck: Part 3

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Can a man still fall in love with a car? Jason Kapcala writes of growing up in the ’90s: “My generation was probably one of the last to view mobility as a literal concept … that mobility is something I crave now more than ever.”

To My Uncle Dickie

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CJ Kaplan remembers the man who taught him to love The Three Stooges, Mad Magazine, “In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida” and other great works of art.

Make My Funk The Steamfunk, I Want My Funk Uncut: Steamfunk As Social Commentary

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Steamfunk is a subgenre of Steampunk, which is a child of Cyberpunk – a subgenre of science fiction in which the future is one in which society is largely controlled by computers, at the expense of freedom, peace and social order.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence [Video]

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Book author and TED Talk speaker Esther Perel shares the secret to desire in a long-term relationship.

My Son’s Dad is a Better Mom than I Am

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Somer Sherwood is grateful for her nurturing, risk-taking ex-husband.

The Next Life [Book Excerpt: 100 Tricks Every Boy Can Do: How My Brother Disappeared]

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My brother Bret started the next life at forty, when he departed from this world by suicide.

Letter to My New Grandson

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Paul Sloane tells his grandson the meaning of life, in 2100 and beyond.

Very Superstitious

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Rituals we perform for good luck are known as sorcery, and actions we avoid out of superstition are taboos.

Never Stop Living

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Does self-image ultimately determine how the body will perform?

Light Fare for the Soul

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A world traveler asks: Can experiential junk food—like a boat ride to a beach resort—ever be spiritually nutritious?

I Hope My Son Is Lucky

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JD Roberto wasn’t a bad kid growing up, just a little wild and very lucky.

Wild Boys, Wilderness, and Woodcraft Rangers

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Predecessors of the Boy Scouts of America, Woodcrafters still bring nature-deprived boys out into the wilderness.

We Don’t Want to Play Anymore

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David Olimpio wanted to be a spy when he grew up. Now he’s glad he left violent games in boyhood, and worries about the men who did not.

Playing with Guns

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We teach kids that driving a car is a responsibility, but we still teach kids to drive. What do we teach them about the responsibility of gun ownership?

A Guy’s Wilderness Canoeing Adventure

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When young males are without older men as guides to the natural world, it’s easy for them to be completely disconnected from nature.