Three Reasons Why Haters Try to Sabotage Your Success


Why is it that some of my own friends don’t seem to be happy that I’ve started to improve my life?

Building Strong Relationships: Managing Problems vs Solving Problems

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Chris Cowan proposes that in a healthy relationship, “I need you” can be just as true as, “I’m fine without you” – in fact, they’re even more true when you put them together.

Dear John: Agreeing To Marry – Disagreeing About Sex

Is he ready to marry her?

Mismatched sex drives, a picky eater, and family get-togethers. John fields the questions you ask.

Is Your Apartment Thwarting Your Love Life?


What if the place you call home is holding you back from true love?

5 Things I’ve Learned From Being “One of The Girls”


Richard Krzyzanowski may be a pretty typical guy, but he tends to get along better with women than men. And he’s learned a few things over the years.

You Want Success? Show Up Every Day, Over and Over Again


We know what makes people great at sports and in their careers: commitment and persistence. Why would it be any different in relationships?

What You Need to Learn From the Movie ‘Her’

Although I’m dreading the upcoming deluge of ironic mustaches on twee sadboys.

Harris O’Malley just saw “Her”, and thinks there’s a lot guys can learn about love and relationships from this film about a man who falls in love with his operating system.

How To Reform a Creeper

“Good to know.”

You need to understand what makes a creeper creepy.

Stop Trying To Be Happy

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Mark Manson debunks the myth of what it means to be happy.

Five Simple Ways to Make Your Life Better

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Self-improvement doesn’t have to be accomplished in huge, Herculean steps.

Dating 201: The Right Mindset For Success

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So you’ve gotten better at dating, but you can’t seem to meet “the one”… Maybe you’re focusing too much on improving the outward details of your dating, and not enough on the inward ones.

How Hollywood Discourages Consent


In film and television, manhood means making moves without asking questions.

I Want to Start Dating, But I Don’t Know How

Spark to a fire

A guy who’s never been been kissed asks Eli and Josie how to start asking women out on dates.

Top 5 Mistakes Men Make in Dating

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Doctor NerdLove insists that before you can become good at dating, you have to start with the basics.

Leveling Up in Dating: Standing Out (The Right Way)

Never let it be said that I don’t wear my nerd cred on my metaphorical sleeves.

Dr. NerdLove takes a look at how, with the right outfit, you can separate yourself from the herd.

I’m In Love With My Friend… But She Has a Boyfriend

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A man looks to Eli and Josie for answers on why, after he confessed his love for a female friend, she went away completely.