“Straight men learned from gay men that physically affectionate, emotionally intimate friendships are not unmanly.”

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These are comments by David May and Rick on the post “For The Love Of God, Please Stop Saying ‘Bromance’”.

Eight Reasons I Love Men

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Paul Kidwell meditates on some of the things that make men worthy of love.

The Power of Love Notes

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Whenever I think of love notes I think about the one stuck to my parents’ bathroom mirror.

Rap Music as a Safe Space for Hetero-Masculine Love

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That most masculine of subcultures, the world of hip hop, ironically provides an acceptable outlet for men to express platonic affection for one another: through rap lyrics.

“We told our kids what touch was appropriate so they could tell us if something happened.”

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This is a comment by Laramie White on the post “Hug Your Daughters”.

“The more I watch porn, the more I crave sex with real women.”

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These are comments by John, Hank Vandenburgh, and Garrett A. Brown on the post “Men and Pornography: 10/20″.

“I keep good relationships with my exes because I believe (non-romantic) love can remain.”

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These are comments by Crescendo63 and Mikki on the post “Dating Advice From a Shaman: 5 Ways to Get Ready for New Love”.

“After our first child, my partner withdrew from me completely.”

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This is a comment by keith on the post “An Intimate Conversation, Part One”.

“The ultimate defect of being ‘too nice’ is that it can convey to a toxic person that they posess this power over you.”

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This is a comment by Jon D on the Comment of the Day “The problem nice guys have is they put women on pedestals and themselves in a pit.”

“The problem nice guys have is they put women on pedestals and themselves in a pit.”

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This is a comment by Jay on the post “Can A ‘Nice Guy’ Ever Beat the ‘Bad Boy’?”

“One of the basic needs of a child is reciprocal affection.”

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This comment was from MichelleG on the post “What exactly makes a ‘Good’ Parent?”

Love Is Not Arousal

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Graham Phoenix looks at why kissing his sons helps them to grow.

Now…Give Your Uncle A Kiss

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Yashar Ali wants us to stop telling our children who they should be affectionate with.

Loving Your Daughter Doesn’t Make You a Pedophile

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Hugo Schwyzer wants fathers to stand up and show their daughters that they’re not afraid of our unhealthy culture of suspicion.

Ten things I've learned from public displays of affection

I have a deep notion of social propriety that makes me very uncomfortable with being too publicly affectionate with someone. I know that many people do not share this notion. I sometimes wonder if PDA is a couple’s way of reassuring themselves that everything is fine. Like…if we kiss hard enough and publicly enough, everybody [...]

Hug Your Daughters

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As daughters age and develop, Hugo Schwyzer argues, it’s important for men to overcome their discomfort and continue to show affection.