Why I’ve Learned to Let Go of My Ego

It was hard, but letting go of my ego changed my whole approach to life.

The (Martial) Art of Good Men

The insider reality of martial arts can offer a deep, rich soil for growing and nurturing enlightened masculinity.

Are You Doing Enough to Protect Your Son’s Sexual Life?

If you choose to have pornography anywhere in your home, you should guard it as carefully as you guard your guns, prescription drugs, and cleaning chemicals.

That’s What He Said: Violence and Aggression

Men open up about their experiences with violence and aggression and how these behaviors relate to their idea of masculinity.

Aggression After Traumatic Brain Injury

Vani Rao and Sandeep Vaishnavi on what we need to know about people who’ve dealt and are dealing with traumatic brain injury.

You Are Not Destined to Be The Man Others Tell You To Be

Your destiny is to be the man you choose to be.

Comment of the Day: “Being assertive means you stand your ground, but recognize and respect the boundaries of others.”

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When Is It OK for a Man to Be Aggressive?

David Allweiss writes the rules for when it’s OK for guys to flip the aggressive switch.

I Want to Change the World by Changing My Mind

Quentin Lucas tells a short story to show how poor thinking can happen to any of us.

Men, Aggression, and Disease

Can aggression in men lead to disease and inhibit recovery from life-threatening diseases?

Can Excessive Cursing in the Media Actually Make Our Kids Meaner?

Tor Constantino shares research that links excessive cursing in the media with aggression in kids.

Masculinity Is Killing Men: The Roots of Men and Trauma

We begin the damaging process of turning boys into men long before boyhood ends.

The One Time I Thought of Something Before Stephen Hawking Did

Empathy, aggression and the One Rule for Boys.

Why Power Isn’t Really Power At All

You are changing the world, just by existing. You are worthy of everything you’ve ever wanted. And it’s a heck of a lot easier to figure that out now than to spend your life striving after the illusions.

When She Gets Mad, Try Not to See Red

Richard Gatley, a clinical psychologist, observes that men and women can experience anger differently. He explains what he sees and teaches men how to lovingly respond.

The Eyes Have it: Changing Kids’ Minds About Bad Behaviour

Why do some children seem angry all the time, or act as if they just don’t care about the feelings of others?