Pursuit of Perfection

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Many men are taking more extreme and dangerous steps to maintain their youth

In Dog Years

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Robert Levithan’s not sure any more if he’s going to outlive Sophie or if she’s going to outlive him.

Baldly Going Where Few Men Have Gone Before

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Mark Radcliffe thinks the thing you fear most – even if it’s going bald – can actually become your greatest strength.

Tupac Performs at Coachella? Umm… Wha?

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Joanna Schroeder feels Tupac Shakur’s appearance (as a hologram) at Coachella may have officially caused Coachella to jump the shark… Or maybe it made Coachella sort of awesome? Apparently she can’t decide which.

Photoshopping My Neck

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William L. Walker has an ally against the inexorable march of time. It’s called Photoshop.

I Stopped Playing Sports to Keep My Health Insurance

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Robert Steven Williams used to play competitive sports. Now his fears of getting benched by his health insurance have him sidelined.

At Valhalla’s Gates: A Life With Metal

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Male menopause, heavy metal, and Lonesome Dove.

Jamie Reidy Is An Old Man

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For the first time, at the age of 42, Jamie Reidy is struggling with getting older.

Limitless People: Mortality, Fatherhood, and Early Manhood

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Joseph Pereira reflects on having to grow up too fast in the absence of his father, raising twin daughters, and how he finds security in his own sense of self and manhood.

Poem: This Business of Time, of Aging

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Daniel Lee Fee says that growing older is like a white-knuckle ride over Niagara Falls, undertaken by a man old enough to know better.

I Suck at Getting Old

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Edgar Ramsey is almost 60, and he’s scared.

Three Portraits for Presidents Day

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Wolf Pascoe writes: “Lincoln’s greatness was that each day, each punishing day, he became a better man than he’d been the day before.”

Jermaine O’Neal and I Are Getting Old

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“It was in the course of considering O’Neal’s decline that I realized my youth, or what was left of it, had come to an end.”

I Turned 50, Hit a Wall, Fought Like a Steer

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Merv Kaufman approached psychotherapy as he would a real estate scam — kicking and screaming. Fortunately for him, it helped anyway.

All the Lone People

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The Black and Blue Man reflects on people who live and die alone—and wonders how long it would take for someone to find him if that happened to him.

Recovering Her Youth With Duran Duran

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Charlie Capen and his wife learn that you can’t fight your age, but can embrace your youth.