Op-Ed: It’s High Time We Decriminalize Sex Work in the US

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Sherri Rosen believes that it would benefit both men and women to create a system whereby sex work could be legal and safe.

Intimacy With a Man Going Through a Health Crisis

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“When you walk into the Dutch Dialysis Center you see blood everywhere.” Sherri Rosen accompanies a friend to dialysis and learns about herself in the process.

How to Fail at Meeting the Girl of Your Dreams

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The universe gave Atalwin Pilon a single chance to meet someone he was wildly attracted to. And he choked.

Thoughts on Happiness and Fear

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Atalwin Pilon knows he isn’t happy 100% of the time. But is that even the point? If not, what is?

My Hometown: Call for Submissions Due 8/28

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Tell us about the place that made you who you are.

Separation As A Test Of Love

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We learn a lot about how we feel for a wife and children when we have to spend a chunk of time away.

Inside the Mind of a Procrastinating Meditator

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Is my curiosity or my desire to escape reality propelling my procrastination?

5 Things I Hear As A Married Man

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Demonstrating on this 4th of July that individuality and marriage can (and should) go together.

Alternate Endings to 2012

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If the world had ended this year, it might have gone something like this.

Halfway Around the World, A Tipping Point

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Brought low by heartbreak and as far from home as possible, Atalwin Pilon finds a tipping point, and gratitude.

The Hospitality Business

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Imagine hospitality extended to one’s self: to be able to welcome all aspects of the self, all emotions, sensations and phenomena as honorable guests.

The Universe Invited Me To Write About Masculinity. So Here I Am.

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Atalwin Pilon is a self-proclaimed former bad boy from Amsterdam who had a spiritual awakening at 32. Welcome to The Good Men Project.

The Prostitute Who (Almost) Saved My Relationship

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A few weeks into a relationship, Evan Jacobs was obsessed. Not with his new girlfriend—with his plan to pay for sex in Amsterdam.

Hot or Not?

A new study finds that men judge women in milliseconds, while women—God bless them—like to get to know us first.