Andrew Smiler insists that we need to reframe Valentine’s Day to make it less about buying jewelry for ladies, and more about expressing love for one another.
New Year’s Resolution: Change ‘The Talk” into the Conversation
December 27, 2012 by 2 Comments
Andrew Smiler impores people to talk more openly and consistently about sex and sexuality with their young children.
Smashing Male Stereotypes
December 6, 2012 by 15 Comments
We’re not all stereotypical, but even men who fit a mold are still real.
Breaking News: Dudes Have Feelings
December 4, 2012 by 21 Comments
Kate Conway wonders: At what point we’re going to decide that men desiring emotional intimacy is no longer newsworthy?
Challenging Casanova: Beyond the Stereotype of the Promiscuous Young Male [Excerpt]
November 20, 2012 by 4 Comments
Andrew Smiler, with some very unconventional wisdom about young men and sexuality.
Imagine! Young Men Aren’t the Sex-Crazed Zombies We Think They Are
November 20, 2012 by 17 Comments
Lisa Hickey reviews Andrew Smiler’s new book that shatters stereotypes of young male sexuality.
Keep It Civil: 10 Ways to Tactfully End a Relationship
August 26, 2012 by 3 Comments
Nicole Johnson offers ten ways to end a relationship with class and composure.
Top Ten ‘Male Anthem’ Nominees
July 24, 2012 by 4 Comments
Mark Ellis ponders what it takes to make a song a true Male Anthem, and lists the 10 he thinks fit the bill.
Seeking a Male Anthem – 2nd Verse
July 14, 2012 by 7 Comments
Andrew Smiler lists the nominees for a “Male Anthem” and asks readers to vote for your favorites.
Men Need to Learn to Ask For Help
July 9, 2012 by 16 Comments
Andrew Smiler discusses the importance of men asking for help, and why “going it alone” can only do harm.
Seeking a Male Anthem
July 5, 2012 by 75 Comments
Andrew Smiler wonders why there has never been a true “male anthem” in popular music.
Are We Afraid Of Men In Love?
February 13, 2012 by 41 Comments
Despite what the media shows us, Andrew Smiler insists that very few guys are in relationships just for the sex.
Increasing the Options: Men in a Post-Gender World
October 7, 2011 by 16 Comments
Can getting involved in the community or being a stay-at-home dad increase a man’s opportunities?
Are Men Natural-Born Cheaters?
February 8, 2011 by 57 Comments
Men are more promiscuous than women, but that doesn’t mean we should buy the cultural fallacy that men are programmed to cheat. The vast majority of men are happily, naturally monogamous.
Who’s Responsible for Violence?
December 13, 2010 by 2 Comments
Should non-violent men take responsibility for other men’s violence? Debate rages on.
Blaming the Blameless: SPSMM Responds
December 13, 2010 by 42 Comments
As SPSMM’s editor for contributions to the Good Men Project Magazine, I’d like to respond to some points made by Mr. Paul Elam (“Men and Violence: Blaming the Blameless“) in response to an article written by Chris Kilmartin, Ph.D., (“Violence Is a Men’s Issue“). Elam notes that Kilmartin did not explicitly reference any research in [...]
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