Why Are Most Violent People Male?

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Andrew Smiler considers several reasons why violent people are more likely to be male than female.

6 Choices Happy Couples Make to Grow Their Love

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Do you ever wonder why some couples don’t seem to have any problems and are always happy?

Should I Be Worried if My Husband Asks for Space?

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The softly spoken words asking for some time are not a reflection of you not being a good partner.

10 Reasons Why Getting Back with Your Ex Is Never a Good Idea

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We hold onto yesterday in fear of what tomorrow may bring. What if everything you always dreamed of was waiting for you tomorrow?

Why Men Choose Punishment Over Compassion

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Does punishment always work best when a compassionate, curious exploration of behavior is available? Many of us grow up with an understanding that when we do something wrong we should be held responsible. Does that necessarily mean we need to be punished for it?

Three Ways to Not Get Stuck in Post-Divorce Quicksand

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How Jenny Kanevsky reframed her thinking after divorce.

Can Excessive Cursing in the Media Actually Make Our Kids Meaner?

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Tor Constantino shares research that links excessive cursing in the media with aggression in kids.

Flying Away From Love

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For Cabot O’Callaghan and his long-distance lover, time together tastes bittersweet—and always flies too fast.

Unleashing the Tiger

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How giving the middle finger to fears of being too big and too loud freed his bodysoul to create authentically.

Dear Divorced Parents, Could Divorce Make Your Kids Lives Better?

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An adult child of divorce faces the facts that good did come out of it for this man and his brother.

What I Learned From Living With Alcoholism

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She tried everything she could before she realized these truths that led to healing. — I grew up with family and friends that all drank alcohol. It was a way of life. Social gatherings, family outings, holidays, they all came with alcohol. As I grew older, it became a way of life for me as […]

Grappling With Fear And The Desire To Live My Authentic Truth

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After growing up in an abusive home, this woman left at 15 and found her path to healing. — I love to write. In fact, I AM a writer. I am an untrained and unpublished writer, but none the less, writing is one of the things I do almost daily. I have been writing since […]

How Your Favorite Weapon Disarms You

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There is one defense that feels good in the moment, but is actually robbing you of your personal power.

How to Stop Your Anger Before It Hurts You and Others

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Counselor Carl shares 7 simple steps for defusing dangerous anger before it’s too late.

I Love my Kids, but Sometimes I Can’t Stand Them

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Sean Swaby has a serious confession to make

Handle Your Jealousy. Don’t Let It Handle You

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Shanna Anderson shows us all that jealousy realizes only negative outcomes.