What Happens to Masculinity and Marriage When Unemployment Strikes?

Unemployment Affects Masculinity

Steven Lake Explores the Effects of Unemployment on Masculinity and Marriage. A Survival Story.

I Am Proud Of My Masculinity

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Graham Phoenix has felt a need to take control over what he does in life and he has had many reasons to question this over the years. He now realizes that this is an essential aspect of his masculinity, an important part of being a man.

Dear White America

Dear White America

Danez Smith is demanding that White America look and listen to the reality of racism.

Of Tears and Testosterone: Reflections on the Manliness of Grief

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Traditional American masculinity did little to help Miller Williams handle his profound grief. Here’s a glimpse into his process, and the experience that brought him to it.

It’s All in How You Respond

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“Often we are OK with impartial feedback, but the real challenge for me in my marriage was learning to be OK with—and respond positively to—feedback from my wife.”

Can Divorce Be an Act of Love? One Man’s Perspective

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Love and Divorce are as closely related as Love and Marriage, and both can and should be done well.

My Father, My Self: It’s Complicated

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My Father Changed, But My Memories Are Not So Easily Shed.

Getting Over The Friend Zone

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Stanley Fritz shares a personal story of rejection, and the three most important things he has learned from that experience.

One Letter Away From (D)anger

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Tree hugging hippie pacifist Edie Weinstein discovers that anger can be a positive emotion when used for good.

Disney, Mom, and the Fear of Angry Women

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A Loving Mom and Disney Set-up Unrealistic Expectations for Steven Lake When Coping With Women’s Anger

Anger and the Superior Man – Is it about Gender or Personal Inadequacy?

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Graham Phoenix looks at the anger surrounding the recent shooting in the US, and explains how it all relates to an expression of personal inadequacy.

You Should Have Given It Time: An Open Letter to Elliot Rodger

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Darrell Milton writes to Elliot Rodger about, among other things, why being a 22-year-old virgin is not a big deal.

The Enemy of My Enemy is My Friend?

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Self punishment, oppression, and the imbalance of man and nature. Do I love or hate myself. Is my enemy my friend because he hates me?

That Time I Fought Over a Parking Spot

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Dillan DiGiovanni regrets that he fought with a guy over a parking spot.

Keep Your Cool: A Father’s Message to Other Fathers About Shaken Baby Syndrome

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Shaken Baby Syndrome is somewhat taboo and simple prevention tactics aren’t talked about often with parents, significant others, family members, and caretakers.

A Challenge for Men: To Love and Not Destroy

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Many men are torn apart psychically because they are not in touch with their gentler emotions, writes N.C. Harrison.