“Rage should always be reconsidered and de-escalated as quickly as possible, and forgiveness should never be taken for granted.”

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This comment by EnterNight on the post Intent vs Impact: Why Your Intentions Don’t Really Matter

The Question Is…. Is a Bad Apology Better Than No Apology At All?

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We often find ourselves in the position of having to either accept a dreaded non-apology apology or no apology at all. Both are terrible options–likely to only make things worse–but they’re usually all we’ve got.

Dear Men, I’m Sorry.

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Leah Medina had grown up being told harmful stereotypes about men. She’s sorry she believed them.

Words: More Powerful Than I Ever Knew

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As Christian Coleman searches for the right words in his marriage, he learns the way they can destroy and heal.

My Wife Struggles Better

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Cully Perlman explains that, in his marriage, mending requires paying mindful and constant attention to improving himself.

10 Tips: Divorce For Grownups

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A straightforward plan to heal from a divorce.

“I was the cause of some hurt to a dear friend recently. Here’s how I handled it.”

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This comment was by OirishM in reply to the post “Forgiveness: There is No Should”

Should We Forgive Apologetic Bullies?

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Bullying leaves life-long consequences. Is one of those consequences a lifetime of clouded judgement?

Jane Doe, You Are Not Alone

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James Landrith offers words of support to a young girl who was not only a victim, but was blamed for being so.

Dear John: My Co-Worker Makes Me Feel Dirty

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A germaphobe coworker, a boyfriend who used to see escorts, and a regretful past of bullying.

Letter to My Unborn Child

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Nick Florest writes to someone he loves who never was.

Dear Men and Women, I Won’t Apologize to You

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Jayson Gaddis believes there is a better way than blaming or apologizing to the other sex.

George Costanza Would Never Apologize; Neither Should Jason Alexander.

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Kenny Bodanis argues that by apologizing for saying the word ‘gay’, we are implying there is something wrong with being gay. And that, says Kenny, is the real insult.

A Noted Psychiatrist Said Gays Can Become Straight. Now He Says He’s Wrong. Not Good Enough.

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Jesse Kornbluth: “If ever a shrink needed a shrink, it’s Spitzer.”

Screw John Wayne: The Art of Apologizing

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Apologizing is much more than saying you’re sorry, Dave Kaiser writes—it’s saying you care.

A Few Steaks in the Office

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For Jason Fritz, some unsolicited generosity led to a great lunch.